Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

Today I got pulled over for speeding by one of the officers that work with my husband. I didnt get a ticket but of course he told my husband who was pissed off. He said that when he gets home my butts gonna pay for it. What can you do when your husband is literally "THE LAW" (and a very high ranking police officer if that)

2007-12-26 13:08:28 · 25 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Usually on my way to school or work I would call my brother in law and talk about issues that we were both faced in everyday life. This went on for a year until my husband questioned me about cheating which in turn he found out that I would talk to him regurlarly not everyday but 2 or three times a week. Ocassionally out of the day we would contact each other about 5 or 6 times. I lied to my husband about the whole ordeal because my intentions were not to hurt him. Most definitely I broke his trust because I never told him about what was going on. His mother and sister knew about the situation but never told him. He believes he can no longer trust me because I lied to him about it. When I was confronted about it I lied to him about how many times I talked to him, the last time I talked to him, if I had e-mailed him.

2007-12-26 13:07:40 · 16 answers · asked by rr.milf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 13:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by curious george 3 in Singles & Dating

also wait for his bus to get home and expect a kiss...?

If the boy is 16 and a sophomore in highschool....

2007-12-26 13:02:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Many women call each other bi(ches and are more critical/judgemental of each other. (And are proud of it)

When the guy cheats, the woman automatically blames the other woman. What if the women didnt know? If you didnt notice, guys like to lie to get sex.

When many women dress they don't even dress for men, they dress to compete with each other. You know who you are.

2007-12-26 13:01:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that you dont get the big "O" when you are on the bottom?....Is this true for both guys and girls?

2007-12-26 13:01:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want a girlfriend to hug and hold and be with but all of the girls I know have boyfriends. It seems like there isn't a single girl who could be good to be with. I'm constantly lonely and I want to be able to hang out with a girl who loves me. Advice for finding Her?

2007-12-26 12:59:59 · 37 answers · asked by Hoops Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

im short,mediam leght hair,love to look stylish,really out going, never mean,love boys,and ambious

2007-12-26 12:59:50 · 16 answers · asked by breiana l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

say you are married and you where driving down the street and seen your ex stranded in the cold would you stop to help? why or why not.

2007-12-26 12:59:17 · 20 answers · asked by LC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I realized recently when I hurt my back and was layed up for 2 days, that my husband literally acts pissed off that he has to do anything!! I mean anything, picking up laundry and taking it up stairs for me, doing his own laundry for work, going to my sisters to pick up our daughter, ANYTHING!! what is this? when he is sick i take care of him. when i get sick its almost like he picks fights so he can leave and not help out. i dont know how to apporach this . He doesnt think he is doing anything wrong. He says " your giving me attitude im giving it back" which is not normal for him. He is only like this when i need him. any advice?

2007-12-26 12:57:42 · 17 answers · asked by stellar31576 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I know this awesome guy and I really like him. So he ask me and my friend to sleep with him. We totally want to but is it ok?

2007-12-26 12:57:30 · 42 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has been logging on to chat lines giving girls his number exchanging sexual texts and pics. how do i get him to stop?

2007-12-26 12:57:28 · 18 answers · asked by slwpain30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy you like doesnt like you back and possibly has a girlfriend already how do you get him to notice you and he is older than you... 2 years

2007-12-26 12:57:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Internet dating sites are very intriging and somewhat addictive...but can you truly find love on there...or do you think a lot of ppl just misrepresent themselves...and ppl trying to use u to get a visa...or get u to pay for their plane tickets...ridiculous...what do you think...

positive and negatives welcomed

2007-12-26 12:56:37 · 13 answers · asked by Toplar 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:55:16 · 25 answers · asked by ! 1 in Singles & Dating

how long can "lust" last? i mean is their anyway that i can confuse real love with lust? i know i can... but theirs is no way it can go one for years?!?!?

2007-12-26 12:54:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his own truthfulness?

2007-12-26 12:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 12:54:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine X 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex who left me sick in the hospital to be with someone else. When I found out I lost it on him, because first I could not believe he could do something like that, and second the girl he left me for was bad news. I was so hurt and by his actions it seemed he did not care about me. We never fought and I helped him through so much mentally. After some time he did tell me everything he did was uncalled for and I found out he is no longer with this girl. This girl was a one night stand before we met, I confirmed that. She got pregnant and had his child. I am the one who told him he should be a part of the childs life, but I never thought he would fall for the mother. She is the reason he wanted nothing to do with them. He was ashamed. But now he is a big part of his daughters life. But no matter what I do, he will no longer talk to me. Why??? I just want answers from him in person, he wont respond to me.

2007-12-26 12:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

3 weeks before Christmas, I came home on a Monday night to be told by my wife of 13yrs that she doesnt love me anymore and that she wants to separate.
I was devasted, in October we went on a holiday and were trying to concieve our first child (no luck).
I lost the plot and have been struggling to function since, Ive taken time off work to spend with my family over Christmas (wow was that a hard day) and sought some counselling.

Now Im back in our home (she is taking some time with her sister), I want to try to work things out but she is playing hard ball, thing thats really confusing is that pretty much all of her clothes, jewerelly, perfume etc etc etc is still here, its like she's simply gone out shopping...What the hell do i do? She says "nope we are over" but hasnt made any advance on leaving the house...this is so confusing, I love her so much..

2007-12-26 12:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by hurtinghub2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm not like old or anything...but i'd love to be settled down and established in my life. is it only older men that have that goal as well?

2007-12-26 12:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by Kaulana 2 in Singles & Dating

I recieved breast augmentation yes I got my augmentation earlier then Christmas I got them in November but I am very happy with the results I have always been heavy chested but after the kids I lost alot of my breast tissue I am only 5 foot 2 and about 105 pounds I am hoping I made a good desicion guys be serious was getting them done so late in my life a mistake. Be honest if your mother was 33 and she had 20yr old breasts would it bother you I don't want my children to be upset how I look what do you think? Also the breast augmentation was my idea and my husband did not push me to do it honest opinions please.

2007-12-26 12:42:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you ever wish that you could start life over or have a differnt life all together? I've just been so down about everything lately. I feel like I have no one that cares about me. My so called friends can't be bothered to keep in contact with me and it's not easy for me to make friends so it's not like I can go out and get new ones. The same with my family I feel like I don't really belong with them like they don't really care. I've been out of work for 7 months now and can't find anything. I either have too much experience or not enough. I can't even get a volunteer position. Most of the time I feel like I don't belong anywhere and that I'll never fit in. I just wish there was someway I could know everything would work out because I honestly feel my life is going to be this way forever

2007-12-26 12:42:28 · 8 answers · asked by justanotherfaceinthecrowd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering how everyone felt about it?

2007-12-26 12:40:02 · 9 answers · asked by traveller 3 in Singles & Dating

Why Do you master bate when you are married or have A companion , Im asking because , well just lets say I need to know if it is normal , I'm Inbarest About this question , but I JUST NEED TO KNOW !and if you are married would you be mad if your spouse did it instead of with you.

2007-12-26 12:39:52 · 30 answers · asked by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love with my guy friend and I don't know I'm so confused.

I've had crushes but I've never been in love.

i want to tell him, but i don't know how.

I can't think , and it feels like i have to concentrate on breathing. the only thing i can get out of my mouth are random things that pop in my head.

how can i tell him

and should i tell him in person or over the phone?

Guys how would you prefer it?

2007-12-26 12:38:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Besides a home cooked meal, TV & computer e-mail.

2007-12-26 12:37:17 · 17 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would any of you guys date a bipolar girl? If not, why?

2007-12-26 12:36:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what personality traits are favorable???
i am fine with looks just wondering about the character charm.
curious!
i am a girl, 24...need answers from 18+. thanks :-)

2007-12-26 12:36:42 · 7 answers · asked by Betsy Boop 4 in Singles & Dating