Well I know this awesome guy and I really like him. So he ask me and my friend to sleep with him. We totally want to but is it ok?
2007-12-26 12:57:30 · 42 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is something only you can decide. Ask yourself...
Can i handle sex with NO STRINGS? Not feeling cared for or loved?
Will i be self conscious? Jealous of attention paid to my girlfriend?
Am i OK with the totally meaningless sharing of my body?
Am i OK having this guy see me as only a playmate, knowing that i will NEVER be taken seriously as a potential girlfriend?
If all of these things are ok, still your call.
Just know that this is NOT a way to impress him, NOT a way to get him to like you and usually NOT for the faint hearted or for anyone who is new to sex, who has much emotional baggage or who has real feelings for the people involved.
My advice is - Don't. i just don't think it will take you anywhere near where you may think you would like to go with this guy. It's just the wrong message.
2007-12-26 13:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says that? I have to say that personally, I'm uncomfortable seeing ANY couple, be they: lesbian, gay, straight, elderly, young, black, white, blue, making out in public. It's still PDA any way you look at it. But I'm not every person in America. People have different comfort levels, and that's okay. Never be afraid to be yourself !! You have just as much a right to kiss in public as every other person out there! Will people stare? Most likely yes. But so what? Let them stare! What are they gonna say? "Hey you over there! You can't kiss each other because I say so!" Then you say : "And who are you??" People kiss in public everyday. And until they make a law that says they can't, I don't see why you should be exempt? . I just wouldn't recommend ANY couples make out in public, because that just ruins everyone's day, lol,^_^ just kidding. And guess what, if all else fails, they can shut their eyes or look away. You do your thing, besides being "socially ok" is overrated....^_^ Maybe a peck on the cheek would suffice and then you two can work from there. Just know that if you go past making out, you could be incarcerated, and that's anybody...
2016-05-26 11:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by carolann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.... My personal experience is that everyone should try a threesome at least once in their life... just so they can say that they did it... Just make sure that he uses a condom, and you both are on birth control to make sure that nothing is going to come out of this... as a threesome is really bad to have a kid out of .... (and honestly, two girls and a guy normally works out better than two guys and a chick)...
But either way... They key to make sure that this is enjoyable for everyone is to make sure that no one gets left out... which means your probably going to somehow be messing around with the other chick... take turns being the "center" of attention....
But most importantly... have fun!
2007-12-26 13:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u r inner soul want , I suggerst u do that, But acc to mer u r not a peice of choclate or cake that we eat jointly. After that u lost u r image in front o9f them ,and too herself. God gives u body to keeo alive the earth, not for presenting u r body as sweetdish in front of boys. I tell u one thing about boys whjen boys do sex with girl they publicity like this that they climb mountain or get something which tyhey never get,before, We r not fully western, In india stil women is weaker sexc & people haver very narrow mentality about this, furher it is u r decision
2007-12-26 18:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are old enough to be involved in this type of activity, and you realize that this is not a serious relationship then its up to you. the worse thing is to do this if you really have serious feelings for this guy because then you will probably regret your best friend also sleeping with a guy that you really want to be in a relationship with. just be careful and be safe
2007-12-26 13:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by librastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him it probably wouldnt be a good idea to have your friend join as fun as it sounds it would really bother you even if you think it wouldnt it probably would because you ahve feelins for him and seein him have sex with someone else would be fun at the time but probably not later on.
2007-12-26 13:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha Suzanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't that make you feel like a prostitute???.
You know what after you have done it, your reputation will go down the drain, and the guy will be so proud to boast to his friend that he made it out with you two. Giving that notion to his friend, they will deem you guys as cheap slut and anyone can just sleep with you two...
take care.
2007-12-26 13:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by trymejames 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me make this one kind of easy. WOuld you want people that you care for (family, mostly dad) to find out what you did? If you dont care then make your move. if not, you have your answer. Dont do anything that might shame you or get you a bad rep.
2007-12-26 13:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by honest gdtmes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not in a serious relationship, and nobody gets hurt. Be careful you don't contract any disease. Getting these wild oats out of the way before getting married to me is a good idea!
2007-12-26 13:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by K M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If everyone is consenting adults then I don't see the problem with it. As long as your into that and you know your going to be ok with it after the fact.
2007-12-26 13:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by luckyme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋