serious romantic relationship before 25?

Question

some say you shouldn't be involved in a serious romantic relationtionships before 25 ...its messes people up emotionally and they have a different prepective in future relations. insecurites, trust issues. whatever it may be. What are your thoughts? some people mature early, some a bit later and some never.

Answer 1

i dont think there is an age limit on when u should fall in love.....its all up to certain people and there own perspectives and preferences......there are no rules to life.....there never has been and never will be.....and everyone is their own person that shouldnt change.....if that relationships comes when u are younger than others than i think your lucky....its a special thing to have.....no matter what your age!

Answer 2

Where the hell are you getting your information from? I'm almost 24 and I've been in a 3.5 year relationship, we'll probably get married.

I'd like to see these "some" you speak off, that gave you such crazy information.

Love has more to do with maturity, then age. The only thing that messes up love before the age of 25, is the immature attitudes and behaviors. For example, so many of my friends want to "get even" with their ex's for something they did. That's immature and that sort of mentality WILL mess you up.

If you're in a healthy relationship, you're fine.

Answer 3

Well personally, I think you should have romantic relationships when you are ready for a serious/ mature enough to have relationship and when you find that right guy. You shouldn't let the age dictate you when you should or should not have serious romantic relationships. It's really all about the timing and when you meet that guy that meets your standards.

I am 21 and in a serious relationship with a 26yr old.

Answer 4

I'm 24 and I was with my girlfriend for 10 years. Although it's true that people grow and mature differently, and often end up heading in different directions, every once in awhile, you find that person that is heading down the exact same path, not because you're on it, but because life is funny sometimes. You can't help when you fall in love and if it lasts, then great, and if it doesn't, you move on to the next thing life has to offer.

Answer 5

I got married at 25 and knew my wife for 4 years before that, so I guess I would set the minimum age for a serious relationship a bit lower--maybe 22.

Answer 6

Interesting topic, something i am looking into, i've had many too much to count small relationships, want a serious romantic one. Thing is i am 20 so same question applies....

So i am interested in seeing what comes of this question. I do believe people mature more than others, some like me just want women rather than girls who would rather log onto Myspace!

Answer 7

Wow, That is the biggest piece of $%# I have heard in awhile.
MY wife was 21 when we got married. I believe I was 25 or 26. She was mature for her age, knew what she wanted in life...I also was ready. IT depends on the people invovled ...not some age range. We do not have any trust issues...we have been happily married for 20 years.

Answer 8

i've been in a serious relationship since i was 21, i love my man more than ever and i'm 24 now almost 25. i believe it's all in the individauls maturity level and how they grow. Each relationship and its people are different.

Answer 9

i was in a serious relationship when 19 now im 23 and yeah you get a bit messed up 3 years nearly 4 gone but it makes a better man out of ya :) now single again love it. nothing too serious right now

Answer 10

I'm in a serious romantic relationship right now and I'm 14. Things are great, we've been together for over a year, and I trust him completely. So I disagree.