2007-12-26 12:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by rr.milf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-12-26 12:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping you kept it from him because you were trying to keep down any trouble... If that is the case then good, because most men there EGO gets in the way of common sense, and would be very jealous to know or even think that his girl and his brother (blood or not) had a good enough relationship where they could talk. I'm glad you have someone you can talk to whom you trust... Why did you tell him after a year, because now it looks like you had something to hide. (THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE, HIDE NOTHING)...
To answer the question NO I don't think you did anything wrong by talking to him, but rather in withholding that information for so long. Now it makes you look like you were doing the wrong thing... If you make the up front truth your motto then you will never run the risk of having this sort of problem again...
2007-12-26 13:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by HoTTTcarmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husbands brother in law could be your brother I guess. Your question needs some big time work I think.
2007-12-26 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what exactly it is youre keeping from your husband that you talked about with his brother in law. If youve kept it a secret this long why let it out now?
2007-12-26 12:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean your brother in law, as in your husbands brother.. then yes, you were keeping something from him, that would have more than likely been hurtful for him to hear.
2007-12-26 12:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Becky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why can't you let husband know? My wife is doing the same and she is trying to hide it. SHe text message him and called him while I was out of town. I know it maybe innocent, but it drives me up the wall knowing it's happening.
I have to trust my wife, but what is there to hide? Care to tell us why you are doing it behind your husband back?
2007-12-26 12:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by 1-Confused-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm just talking to his brother in law isnt a crime, but talking to him in an intimate capacity would be so it depends on what ur exactly talking about..
2007-12-26 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could purely flow away all of them be for the previous announcing is going that blood is thicker than water.your infants ought to comprehend which you had a distinctive variety of courting with their father than them. My ex grew to become into an alcoholic and my person infants informed me that they are going to nevertheless love him sitting on a bar stool falling off it inebriated! I enable it flow through fact the kinfolk is going to love him unconditionally actual or incorrect. Our journey with our abusive exhusbands are purely that ...... we are affected in yet differently than others that have a courting with them. i understand the form you experience and thanks to the youngsters we are in a position to think of and experience besides we ought to as long as they do no longer ought to hearken to approximately it. So I do purely no longer improve something in a foul nature approximately him through fact I purely finally end up being the undesirable guy. nicely they could all elect to love him and notice him the way all of them choose to.....yet I actually have a real to my emotions and the youngsters are sufficiently previous to narrate with him any way they elect yet......i elect to no longer share my turkey dinner with him and that they'll purely ought to settle for that no remember what. I do understand my childrens emotions yet in addition they ought to understand mine. so a procedures as my ex inlaws and the 25 years I had with them it extremely is over now and could in no way be the comparable. i'm superb and well mannered once I run into them yet I comprehend that i'm no longer something now without my connection to him. it extremely is okay through fact I even have moved on and function new inlaws that understand me and that i understand that if my 2d marriage ever ended under any situation they could be for him through fact he's their blood line. Take care sweetie.
2016-10-20 00:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by olmeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...how about ur husband talk to your sister about u for 2 years??? do u like that idea???
2007-12-26 13:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you sure you only talk to him nothing else.looks like some big deal.
2007-12-26 12:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound guilty. what did you "talk" about?
2007-12-26 12:26:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋