this might be a little off the wall...lol...me and a friend are having a discusion.
if a guy usually "finishes" within 5 minutes of intercourse does this usually mean he's enjoying it. in other words...it's good...lol
if he's not liking it does it usually take longer because he has to put more effort into it to ***.
2007-12-26 12:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look..all guys are different. Some last longer than others. Some guys want a woman so bad that bang they are done quickly however no matter how long it takes, it always good.
2007-12-26 12:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by rydaldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long it takes a man to climax is variable, and depends on many different things.
When a man has regular sex, like every day, it takes longer for him to climax than a man who hasn't had sex in a month. If he's had sex recently it will take longer because of recovery time. If he has erectile dysfunction or impotence it can take a lot longer for him to have an erection or even to have an orgasm if at all.
Some men are also slow to ejaculate and take more stimulation; some are faster than others, and in some cases a man can have "premature ejaculation" and finish very quickly.
Presumably a guy "enjoys" it when he ejaculates, but how long it takes him can be variable. 2 to 7 minutes is probably within the normal range, but it's probably a better idea that it not be too fast, or she may not enjoy it.
2007-12-27 13:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, there are very FEW men that go past 5 minutes in the sack. 5 minutes is I guess the normal now from what I have heard and read, But normally if a woman is doing everything right in bed then yes it is a great thing for the both of you. But if she is not doing anything right and the man is doing all the work as in if she is just laying there then yes it will take alot longer, if fore play and the sex act is going great then 5 minutes is not bad at all for the both of them. but if one or the other is not doing it right at all then it will take longer to reach that point to climax. anything under 5 minutes for a man You should not waste your time with, they are only wanting to basically get in get out so to speak.
2007-12-26 20:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sometimes has nothing to do with if he enjoys it... Ive had sex with the same person and sometimes last 5 10 20 minutes... how long a guy lasts is really a weird question i wish there was just a set time all the time thatd be soo tight actually
2007-12-26 20:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation I have quickys and long runs just verys i dont plan them at all and i dont even have to enjoy it too much I think its just how horny the guy is but a quiky can result from wett tight and just good sex.
2007-12-26 20:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ending early (im a girl btw) just means it feels really good.. when it lasts longer it could be that he is giving that extra effort to not "come" or it could be anything from alcohol consumption, or not being in the mood..
it really can vary.
but most do go in a matter of minutes.. LOL
so get yours first!!
2007-12-26 20:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Becky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the longer it takes the more the guy's enjoying it. I would know. E-mail me if u got more questions.
2007-12-26 20:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some r more sensitive and some do it harder and faster so they *** quicker. sometimes we need to slow it down so we last longer but its hard when u have a hot girl. so yes he enjoys it probably everytime despite how long it takes.
2007-12-26 20:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by kenshin643 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means he is quick or slow ---- for me slow is much more enjoyable than quick --- plus its time to give more pleasure to your partner ---- enjoy
2007-12-26 20:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good when its longer
2007-12-26 20:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by looneytune97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋