my fiance has a bit of temper, and what i dont understand is why he plays video games that make him yell screem cuss, and through stuff. why? guys why does he do this??? its to the point the dog wont come in when he plays and the nieghbor thinks we are fighting! is there anything i can do?
2007-12-26 12:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is the sense of competition. His competitiveness drives his anger, but his anger is not directed at you. I wouldn't suggest walking in front of the T.V. while he is having one of his fits (unless you are naked, of course). I used to be like this when I was younger, but have mellowed out over the years. He will get to the point he realizes it is just a game. All you can do is wait it out.
2007-12-27 01:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's passionate about things im guessing in all he does. And he probably likes to win , and gets frustrated when he loses. ( as if he can't do it and he know he can so he gets a little hot under the coller) You may tell him its only a game but to him he needs to tackle whats in front of him to be able to say he completed it and conquored what it was that was getting in his way. Then he can move on. So to him its more than a game. He's thinking this thing can't stop me I'm going to beat it.
He's competitive. and gets a little excited in it thats all. I have games like that , that frustrate me and i want to take a hammer to it and smash it to smitherines.
2007-12-26 21:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a release for him. Have you told him how it affects other people?
This is off the point...but you've admitted already that he has a temper...be sure that you really want to go through with the wedding. This kinda worries me.
2007-12-26 20:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever played a video game?? There's nothing u can do. OMG I yell at them all the time when they go and get themselves killed or someones in my way, it's a horrible habit, but I soooo love it!
2007-12-26 20:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey my 18yr boy and 14yr grl does that too,when they play video game as well, they get so involed it they forget it is just a game, they feel they are really do it in real life lol, just look at your neighbors when you see them next time and smile and say, my husband had a wild nite playing video games hope he wasn't too loud for you lol good luck to you and happy new yr
2007-12-26 20:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by iamsugaronyourlips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad does the same thing, he thinks the game is chesting, lol. That's just the way guys are.
2007-12-26 20:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better the video game then you.
2007-12-26 20:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DUM
GETS A LIL 2 EXITED
2007-12-26 20:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to take it easy or you'll take it away. Treat him like a little kid! ^.^ LOL
2007-12-26 20:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Livv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not your fault HE"S A GUY
2007-12-26 20:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋