2007-12-26 11:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by cindycandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You owe it to your husband (and yourself) to try to improve your sex life within the marriage. Cheating adds a whole new level of complication to your dynamic. Sounds as if you've already kinda left him if your cheating. Maybe it's a deal breaker for you, but if it is, allow him to live his life, cause otherwise your both living a lie which not only shortchanges your marriage but also shortchanges your potential as individuals.
Otherwise, stop cheating immediately and start focusing your attention back into your marriage and seriously get tested for possible STD (if you sleep with another man you should have a clean slate before sleeping with your husband) - you shouldn't compromise his health because of your inability to deal with your dissatisfaction in a more constructive manner.
2007-12-26 11:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stop cheating on your husband is to tell him.He will leave you and you can sleep around with whom ever you like.You had a vow to him when you married and you broke it,he may be a bad lover , but you are a cheating wife.He can be fixed,you will not.Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-12-26 12:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever told him what you actually want out of him, if not you should try. As far as cheating, I never underdstood people like you, what's the point in being marrired, just divorce your husband instead of tring to have the best of both worlds.
2007-12-26 11:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him, you would coax him into being a better lover. if you're open and honest (like people should be in a marriage) he will get better.
but you obviously do not love him if you're cheating on him.
2007-12-26 11:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by cyan_hit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he doing that's so bad? Maybe talk to him, or make him watch porn and tell him the things you see that really turn you on. Hopefully he'll get the point!
2007-12-26 12:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u stop? Keep ur legs closed!
2007-12-26 12:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question: in this case is better to get divorce.Being single, you can do whatever you want.Good question.
2007-12-26 11:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quit it, its not like you don't plan your encounters, and train him to do what you want!
2007-12-26 12:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him and letting him know that it doesn't please you when you two are intimate together. Try helping him out and letting him know what would please you. You have to stop cheating first.
2007-12-26 11:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Engr Dude 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pants on and your legs closed...
2007-12-26 11:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lou L 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋