I am seeing this girl. who I like alot. She likes me as well. We have been hanging out all the time, we kiss eachother and everything, she even wants to move to Cali with me. But she has a boyfriend of 4 years. She said she is going to leave him soon so we can be together full time. But it hasn't happened yet, since to 2 weeks we been seeing eachother. She said she didn't want to do it right now cause of Christmas and it would be pretty messed up of her. But I can't stand it when she leaves everynight to sleep in bed with another man. I know she is cheating on him with me, but they have been having problems and its just about over. Is she going to leave him for me or is she just leading me on?
2007-12-26 10:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by unglory2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what she's doing...but, I'm going to guess if it's only been two weeks since she's been seeing you, and she's been with him for four years, she isn't really going to leave him.
What you need to be asking yourself is do you want this girl? She's cheating on her boyfriend, which says loads about her character...is that the kind of person you want to be with? If she does leave him and is with you, aren't you always going to be wondering if she'll do the same thing to you?
There are plenty of wonderful single women out there...who won't put you in second place, or make you wait, or make you wonder what's going on in their head. Those are the girls you need to spend your time with, not this one.
2007-12-26 10:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by amieretto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she hasn't done it yet, she might be leading you on. And why are you messing around with a girl who's been in a committed relationship for four years? You've only had two weeks with her and she already wants to move in with you? You have no idea who she is or what she wants or what she's about and you feel that you two can have what she has with a guy for four years? Give her up. She just wants something different because she's tired of the same old with her current guy. Regardless of holidays or birthdays or anything, if she really wanted to break up with the guy, she would have. You barely know her; don't be so quick to jump the gun.
2007-12-26 18:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lost & Wandering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to say, if she's been seeing him for four years, there's a lot of history there. She might've been through a rough patch with him and needed someone else to make her feel better, and that's where you came in. But, maybe she really does have feelings for you. Either way, you need to be careful because this is a very "iffy" situation. I would definitely set some boundaries for you two until she breaks it off with the other guy, that way she knows that you are serious about being with her for real, and your not just her side dish.
2007-12-26 18:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONe saying my friend told me that i will NEVER forget
( not all women so dont flame me ladys =D)
"women are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they have ahold of another"
yes, as soon as they get into another fight i could see her leaving him.
2007-12-26 18:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Martin512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell, but the Magic 8-ball says, "answer doubtful."
2007-12-26 19:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋