i'm a shy guy, quiet, reserved. Age 28 male. dn't have any friends in real life..but i guess i have had the opportunity to have some friends in the web. I even voice chat with some and its been fun.
But i'm not sure that's really helping. I still feel lonely, i don't have friends that i can see face to face.And for me, having face to face friends would be the best thing ever.
Chatting and voice chatting mostly makes me feel more sad realizing that it's just a fantasy.
2007-12-26 09:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can have both Internet friends and real life friends. That is the best of both worlds. Sometimes it is easier to tell someone Online your inner most thoughts and concerns. But you can get too involved in the Internet chatting to spend adequate time meeting people near by.
There are many sites where you can find friends in your own area, places like myspace allow you to search your zip code and then chat with others. I recently made a new friend on myspace, and after chatting a while we decided to meet so that we could be friends in real life. Sometimes the relationship may be different once you meet them, but it doesn't hurt to try.
2007-12-26 09:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is said that some people have found love.
In my opinion is a terrible way to make friends. Most friendship are from far away, and those that you meet from your own town will see you in person once a year.
For example, MySpace is really cool and all to share pics and stuff, but I don't think that anyone can actually keep a steady relationship with anyone. Even a bigger excuse not to see or call each other... it's now like "I'll myspace you"...
With chat rooms, it's even worse... it's more like you're there with thousands of real strangers.
I suggest you join a club. What do you like to do? What ever it is look for clubs you can join. Not only will you be doing something you like, you will share that with people that like doing the same thing.
I think the changes of making real friendships there are bigger than sitting in front of your computer trying to find friends that you will never really know.
2007-12-26 09:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its ok if the people youre chatting to are real life friends first and youre using it to organise social events etc, but ill be honest its a bit sad to rely on online friends for company. try getting out and joining social clubs the people you chat with go to, that way itll be safer cause youll all be in a group too.
2007-12-26 09:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is just that--talk. Do they stay near you? If so, why haven't y'all hung out? When they start wanting to meet you and stuff, that's when you know you've made contact. Instead of sitting behind a computer screen, you need to get involved in some activities that would put you around other people. You can do it, I know you can!
2007-12-26 09:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say kinda both. because the things you and your friend online share you can't share in person. you wish the laughs you share online were sometime in person.
hey don't feel like your the only one out there like that. i have more friends online then i do in real life also. i want more friends of both sexes but it's hard to make true friends because guys think your trying to get with them and majority of girls think the same.
2007-12-26 09:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by onewithoneself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be reserve then do we give a fcuk about you
2007-12-26 09:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋