Im 16 ..and this weekend my friend wants me to go see her boyfriend with her because my other friend cannot go. My mum would not let me go if I told her I was going to sleep at a boys house so im gonna say im sleeping at my mates (ive done it before and got away with it so I can do it again..being a teenager is about taking risks!) Anyways if I go this boy MIGHT be there who I like (its my friends boyfriends friend) ..We're gonna be having a drink and usually we go off in pairs when his friend is there. But if his friend is NOT there I will just be there like a third wheel. I wanna go to have a drink and have a nice time but then I dont wanna go because I dont wanna be in the way. I find it really awkward when we're sat in a room watching tv and they start kissing under a duvet and im just there! It will be ok if the boy I like is there but I cannot be SURE he will be there. Even if I ask him he is not reliable and he might not turn up, and I dont even really wanna ask either!
2007-12-26 09:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go and try to have fun, whatever happens.
Your friend obviously wants you there as she has asked you to go. Maybe you could talk to her before you go and tell her you feel uncomfortable when it's just the three of you and she starts kissing her boyfriend, she'll probably understand and do it more privately.
So yes...go! If you don't, you'll regret it and just be wondering what you're missing out on =]
2007-12-26 09:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it! Sounds like trouble to me...Misery, loves company. This guy, you wanna make out with is not reliable? Oh that's more "good news". Your lieing to your mom to do all this? Some risks, are better left alone...you got your whole life to mess up...why do it in one night? I wish you could read what you wrote if you are a mother some day....phew!
2007-12-26 09:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dgirl97 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a good friend and go just b/c ur friend asked
wat do ya kno mabe that boy will be there too
so what if u r the third wheel, while they r makin out think of ur fav place to be and or think of the special sum1
2007-12-26 09:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by whiz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go.
stop questioning if hes gonna be there or not.
if he's there, he's there.
you said it yourself, being a teenager is about taking risks.
so take that risk.
and even if he's not there - it willl still be cool cuz ur friends is there. & if they kiss in front of u just like text sum1.. hhahaa
2007-12-26 09:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. The guy is probably all right but his friends are probably not all right. You may be forced into a situation in which you have no control. There will be plenty of opportunities.
2007-12-26 09:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
having been a parent, I cant approve of your going,all the more so, when your prepared to lie to your parents.
I have seen so many girls of your age get into all sorts of trouble,and for this reason,I used to keep tabs on my daughters whereabouts,and so many of her ex school friends are now unmarried mothers,and their lives's messed up over one night out with some young punk ready to bed them.
My daughter now appreciates what I did,when she See's her friends.she is now happily married with a lovely daughter of her own.
2007-12-26 09:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by josephrob2003 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is there any other guys you can ask and im sure your friend would ask her bf if he has any friends that can join in.
if not why not have a game of truth or dare with the three of you together it will be a lot of fun.
2007-12-26 09:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by jordads 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go there's too many variables in this. If you are sure there will be adults there to supervise then recheck with Mum she knows best.
2007-12-26 09:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Steven D 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trust your parents. And be strait with them. If they are against you doing something there is usually a good reason.
2007-12-26 09:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by hsu_travel 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
take a chance worst comes to worst you still help your friend out and its only a day or two
2007-12-26 09:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by mattsportz1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋