i had a friend that always claim to be a virgin...i dont know if to believe her since she has been with this guy for 7yrs...and they go out every weekend...shes not wild but its hard to believe it....i have also had a boyfriend for 5yr....and i couldnt wait that long!!....do u think she's just ashame to say the truth??....but i would think he would be going crazy because she is very attractive also..what do u think???
2007-12-26 09:53:52 · 13 answers · asked by minie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-26 10:15:22 · update #1
It depends on how old she is to a certain extent...Is it a relationship she had since middle school or highschool? Back then their feelings were immature and just really developing as they were developing into adults and I'm sure he was ready but maybe she just wasn't and he honored that.
Or maybe they are waiting until marriage, have you ever asked her that? Some people are together for years and wait until their wedding night to finally share the moment together. That used to be the tradition and maybe either she or even he might be upholding it.
But either way if a person isn't ready to have sex and they satisfy each other in other ways, it's quite possbile. Hard to believe sometimes because when you feel so connected with a person, you naturally want to share that moment together and I'm sure they do, but are just waiting until they both want it.
Or maybe she is lying just to seem like a pure person to you, it all depends on what kind of person she is, haha.
2007-12-26 10:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She very well could be. In any case if it's so important to her that people think she's a virgin then just nod and move onto the next subject.
2007-12-26 10:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Yoofina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your gf is not a virgin.
No guy is going to date someone for 7 yerars withoput sex.
Unless they are very, very, young, like 6 or 7 years old.
2007-12-26 09:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can stay a virgin for 7 years, depending on your personality. But why should you care? Just leave your friend's problems w/ herself and focus on your life!
2007-12-26 09:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on the kinda person she is.
some people can live without sex... others cant
in my opinion, i think she is most likely telling the truth
and there is no reason to lie about it if she has been with this same guy for so long.
but stop askin her about it, and if it does happen... im sure she'll tell you
:):)
2007-12-26 10:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_Leanne_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, just unlikely. Does it really matter? Does she guilt you about not being one? I think that's the only time it would matter. In that case she's a lousy friend and time to move on.
2007-12-26 09:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. But in the end it does not matter, its her own choice as to whether people know if she has had sex or not.
Could just ask her boyfriend if they have had sex. He'd probably tell you.
2007-12-26 09:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible, especially if she made that commitment to herself, or if the guy has made that commitment.
2007-12-26 09:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by mak247mlh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's impossible.
I couldn't wait for more than a year!
2007-12-26 09:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Hanad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. It really isn't any of your business, stop asking her about it.
2007-12-26 09:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋