Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She then asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school. In passing one time she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...we've been hanging out for a few weeks now at her house or going out to other places.
2007-12-26 09:48:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's very much into christianity which I can deal with since I'm an agnostic leaning towards christianity, but I dunno if she would be very tolerant of some of the stuff I like - she didn't seem to enjoy me watching family guy at her house, even though she said "no offense if you like it". But, we get along great and we like alot of the same music and act similiarly. Everytime I invite her out to do something, she brings her sister (whom I've met before) or a friend...which I take as meaning she isn't interested in just being with me yet. After all this time she still hasn't said anything about becoming more, at all. I don't want to confront her unless I know for sure she likes me (and likes me for who I am), since I don't want to get attached and take this farther than it should. Is it normal for a girl to go through all this to get to know some guy she barely talks to in class? I am ok with being friends with her, I just wish it could be more.
2007-12-26 09:49:11 · update #1
Wow. It seems you have a lot on your hands. Well, this can mean many things. maybe she likes you a lot and thinks you don't like her, maybe she doesn't like you to go out with you, but likes you as a friend, or maybe she does like you and is waiting for you to make it official. Regardless, tell her how you feel about her and I'm sure she'll tell you then and there how she feels. Good luck!
2007-12-26 09:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have her sister checking you out for weird tendencies (girls do that, have their friends check you out and pass judgment). Your relationship is still new. You've only known each other for a couple of months. Keep up on the friendship stuff. Relationships have differences and both people compromise. I don't enjoy football, so I tend to make myself scarce while my boyfriend is watching it, but it doesn't mean I like him less; it's just something we don't do together. So don't assume she can't love "all of you" if she doesn't like Family Guy; take it as something you disagree on and leave it at that.
Take time to be her friend first. As she gets more comfortable with you and the two of you are alone, you can better judge how she feels about you.
2007-12-26 17:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously wants to take things slow, which will be beneficial especially if you guys plan to date...she knows what she is doing
2007-12-26 17:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to discuss you guys' situation insted of worrying...
2007-12-26 17:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. Let her get to know you.
2007-12-26 17:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋