basically this question is for ladies only,but men feel free to add your input....?

Question

what would you do if your partner sedated your alcoholic drinks in order for him to have his WAY with you.
no stupid responses,sincere replies only.

thank you all for your overwhelming response.it is going to be extremely hard for me to choose a best answer.i may have to let this go into voting.

edit to PETE.............
I LOVE YOU TOO.

Answer 1

I would dump him as a partner and as a friend.
Anyone that would do something that offensive just for some short-lived personal pleasure is not to be trusted. At all. Ever.

Answer 2

I had a man do that to me once. I just thought I had to much to drink that first date when he did it. Then about 2 months later he told me about it. So in that case I forgave him, but told him if he ever did it again I would do something to him sometime.
So it would depend on if he did it and said sorry later or if you found out this. Also if your in a relationship with him.

I would be very upset about this and would question what type of man would this. BTW that guy and me didn't last as he was a bad person.

Answer 3

What evidence do you have of this?
is he using Rohipnol or Poppers or Formaldehyde?
How did you become aware of the fact.
The question points to the the fact this has already happened.
there are some ( and I do mean a very small minority) women who actually invite this kind of process, some for personal reasons others for medical, though neither would admit in polite company..
If this is happening without your consent then this is definately RAPE there is no other way to describe it!
Ask yourself ARE YOU HIS ONLY VICTIM!! has he done it to others is he still doing it to others?
Could he and his mates be doping you and their partners to share this could be part of a bigger Circle of events..
PEOPLE DIE..

Answer 4

Technically it is rape. I would get rid of him. Any man that needs to sedate a partner for sex has got some serious issues and could be a danger to you.

Answer 5

If he is your partner and he stoops to this level, what else is he doing? This person cannot be trusted, he is a rapist and a criminal. Have him arrested and this will give you time to get out with having to confront him. You are in a terible situation and deserve better. Move on before it's to late.

Answer 6

That you should get as far away from that person as possible. They obviously don't have any consideration for you if they have to sedate you to "have their way". They should have enough confidence in themselves to know that you would just want to be with them. If they do this, what next??

Answer 7

when you say partner,do you mean long time ,for one night? this could make a difference,if the man is your husband then kick his A##. if not then let me give you my opinion,there is not anything macho about taking advantage of another person. if you were slipped a Micky so the other person could get into your knickers,then my little friend you were taken against your natural will,you did not give up yourself free and willingly. and that constitutes, Rape!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

dump him..shows he has no respect for you and your values and/or choices. I cant even imagine why a guy would do that.. I would never want to have sex with someone sedated or even drunk, not the 1st time anyway, I want her to be conscious of her choice,

Answer 9

I know that the only reason you cant answer this question yourself is because youre emotinally involved. If a friend asked you this same question you would know the answer in a heartbeat... Get rid of him. Hes trash.

Answer 10

Call the police and have the scum bag arrested for rape!!!!!
And just because he's your b.f. doesn't give him the right. What if you had been alergic to that drug? Including a whole host of other things.....