I'm 6 month pregnant, if that makes a difference...
2007-12-26 08:13:26 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no question
2019-02-17 23:37:58 · update #1
i was going to say, he is in vegas, so yes not calling may be bordline normal. then i read about you being six months pregnant (which i truly love), so have to change my answer to no, that isn't normal. no matter what may be going on in vegas, and there is a LOT going on, he should have called you. a lot.
2007-12-26 08:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first, you have to ask yourself these questions:
-Does he call you every single day?
-Does he always call you when he is out of town to visit anyone?
-Does he have his own phone/cell? or Does he always try to find a phone to call you no matter how hard it is?
-Did he call to tell you that he made it there safely?
If the answers to these questions are mostly a yes, then there is something suspicious going on. As you know(or if you didn't know), Las Vegas is a famous gambling/clubbing city that a lot of people go to, for excitement. There are parties everyday and every night, basically there is always something happening there every second of the day. He's probably out with some family member or friend having the fun that he thinks he won't experience ever again. Don't tell yourself that he is not doing anything and that he is only spending time with his family because I've experienced what a family member or friend can make them do something stupid. I've experience those things before so I suggest that when he calls you, ask him why he hasn't called you and what he has been doing during those times. There is nothing positive to hear about when they are in Las Vegas though, you can count on that. But don't jump into conclusion yet because they might just be spending time with their family and just don't have the time to call you because it is a holiday. But still, don't think that he is not doing anything wrong either, just be prepared for the bad anyways, just in case he did something bad but if he didn't then you can brush that off your shoulders and be relief. Guys can tell a lot of lies so make sure that you can really trust the things that he is saying to you if he says that he hasn't or didn't done anything wrong. All I have to say is that it is not right for him to not contact you at all when you are pregnant. That might be something that you might have to think about too because some guys are jerks and they will go out and mess around with other girls before they have to stick with someone that they didn't want to get stuck with. Hopefully this helps you out. Take care and good luck to you.
2007-12-26 08:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite normal. The fact that you are 6 months pregnant will jolt him back to normalcy when his trip is over. Why don't you call him? The reason I say this is my son went to Florida 10 days ago and I never heard a word. This morning I got an email - seems he had been trying for days to reach me and couldn't get through. Not that my line was busy just a problem with the circuits or his cell or something. A guy he met there let him use his laptop to send me a message. It was lovely to know he was OK.
You didn't say how long he planned to stay in Las Vegas and when you are in 'Vegas' time is like a vacuum cleaner and sweeps you up up and away.
Don't you be worrying one little bit, take care of yourself & baby. He'll be back.
2007-12-26 08:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by MYRA C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well lets start from the top
1. your question needs to make sense here is how it should be
my bf went to a family trip in las vegas 3 days ago, and he has not called. Is that normal?
i am 6 months pregnant
2007-12-26 08:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by haheha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK-the pregant part should make a difference. But-he is your boyfriend and Las Vegas is very enticing. If he went with family, he's probably been too busy to call anyone. He'll come home with a lot of stories of everything he did. Then you'll know why he didnt call.
2007-12-26 08:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by phlada64 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sure he's just having some fun. you shouldn't worry about, but if you really are worried, give him a call and see what's up. Plus, it's a family trip. However, because you are pregnant, he really should be calling, so in my opinion, no, this is not normal. Unless of course, that is just who he is. I'm sure there's a good explanation as to why he's not calling.
2007-12-26 08:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may just be tied up with his family. But because you are 6 months pregnant, that changes things. He should call. That is not normal. Even if you weren't pregnant, he should call. But because you are, that is not normal.
2007-12-26 08:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you usually talk every day? I know that I have been on vacation before and have not called my girlfriend for 3-4 days also. She was ok with it because she knew that I loved her and was coming back at the end of the week.
2007-12-26 08:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by B J H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling you would defeat the purpose of a vacation...
A vacation is a time when you "get away from it all" for a short while...
I'm sure he'll call...3 days is not abnormal...
Give him some space...and enjoy the space you have for the moment...
I see no "wrong doing" on his part...
Relax...(try not to use your "preganancy" as "leverage" to be coddled...you can go a few days or a week without having to hear his voice...)
2007-12-26 08:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly calm down cause stress is bad for your baby. Then of course call him and leave him a message cause there is alot in Vegas to entertain him. Don't get to worried about it you cant just fantasize in your head about it that wont help anyone.
2007-12-26 08:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by oncejadedpoetess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋