Everyone seems to think relationships are overrated right now. Do you agree? Please explain yourself.
2007-12-26 07:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by Dan in Real Life 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOw that depends on what type of relationship they are in... If they had bad ones then they are jaded and would say that they are over-rated. I don't think they are, i think they can be wonderful experience which they are suppose to be and should be but unfortunately people sometimes choose the wrong person to fulfill that and it fails... whence the bitterness.... I think people should be more picky and fix their own shortcomings then they would have successful relationships... ITs hard to fix urself but i think once u achieve that u know what u want, have the confidence to get it and u get involved in a good relationship and then think its GREAT!! SO the hardest part is finding a good person to be in a relationship with and also becoming the a good person for a relationship...
2007-12-26 07:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest part is interacting with this person who loves you and admires you in ways you never even thought possible, or felt you were deserving of. For example, being so damn happy for you when something good happens to you, in whatever area of life, for example a success in your career. As you may imagine, this creates huge expectations. You really feel you must be the very best person you can be, in terms of morality, integrity, work-ethic... everything, and in turn you want to do everything you can to make that person happy. You really don't want to let that person down, and that is in my opinion the quintessentially most difficult thing about relationships.
2016-05-26 09:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hardest part: never knowing what's going to happen.
BUT, that's also the best part of it all and when something wonderful happens, you just can't help but be glad.
I don't think relationships are overrated, unless they are based on nothing more than physical attraction, sex, and whatever the hell else. As long as relationships are based on trust, honesty, and whatever else, then they're not overrated because of the joy that it brings into your life when you finally realize you got it right.
2007-12-26 07:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Irina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having to be as nice as i possibly can to his family even tho they are never nice to me. Trying to tolerate his friends and wondering why men there ages act so juvenile. Overlooking his snoring, and other bad habits, because i know i am not perfect. Relationships are not overrated at all. If any thing they are underrated. These days people don't try hard any more to make there relationships work. AT the first sign of trouble they turn tail and run to some one new. We live in a disposable society, where even our relationships have become disposable.
2007-12-26 07:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sha T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how human relationships could ever be considered overrated. That's like saying water is passe, or breathing air is old-fashioned. The hardest part about being in a relationship is sticking with it when things get tough. Assuming you aren't havign cheating types of problems with your significant other (which I imagine would be very trying) I think the biggest problem with the most potential for disaster is money. Who is spending what, who is making what, who is saving what.
2007-12-26 07:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The hardest part for me is getting through the bad times...(like right now, he is layed off work and it's not the best time of the year to be looking for a job!) without judging my spouse or saying things I will regret.
2007-12-26 07:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, the hardest part about being in a relationship is trying not to be insecure about things and allowing myself to trust him 100%. So far, I haven't been able to find someone I can fully trust.
2007-12-26 07:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jacattack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest part of a relationship is resisting temptation, a true test of ones loyalty
2007-12-26 07:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me the hardest part is trying to get over my insecurities.I always feel like I'm not good enough.You need to love yourself to be able to receive love.I don't feel that relationships are overrated.I think that being single is overrated.Good luck:)
2007-12-26 14:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hardest part is n the bed
2007-12-26 07:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋