ok this friend of mine...has a awesome boyfriend...never cheated on her...treats her with nothing but respect...she has cheated on him twice...yet he sticks by her...they try to work it out...he has been there for her every single day for the past 8 almost 9 months...through her fathers death...everything...now she says she loves someone...(she says she loves him) that she has met...in total 10 times maybe...she has seen him 3 times in private...and other then that its just talking on msn and facebook...how could that possiably compare to havng a boyfriend who has not only lived with her for the past almost 9 months...but has been by her side through thick and thin? like doesnt that seem retarded to anyone? yes i believe u could FIND ur love online...but to actually say u love someone after being with the person 3 times in private? lol and other then that msn n a couple times they talked on the phone? lol is this not just outragously funny to anyone else?
2007-12-26 07:51:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well also dont forget i said i do think its possable to FIND love on the internet...just dont think u can actually FALL in love on the internet...i know i couldnt anyways...to me loves mean someone that will be there through thick and thin...no matter wat...how do u know how someone will react in a situation if u have only ever talked to them online? like really...just because someone types something...doesnt mean they mean...but im not so stupid to think that what someone says something they mean it either...but actually being there for the person...u know? not just typing to them while ur watch videos on youtube lol..like cmon
2007-12-26 08:41:47 · update #1
and im sorry but if u tell me that u r in love...from talking on the internet and phone...im sorry but i call u a retard...u have no clue how that person will react in any situation...love isnt just liking wat u know about that person...its about knowing almost everything about that person and loving them anyways...even for bad ****...people online dont understand that people arent gonna come out with all thier faults...especially all thier deep ones...and we all have them...the deep dark secrets...and ur not going to reveal that to someone over the internet...usually...i could see if she was talking to this guy on the internet for like years and years or something...but they have been talking on the internet for maybe maybe 4 months...and within the last month is when she met him three times...im sorry...but to me...its just plain ****** up...untill u r with someone through some seriouslly ****** up ****...u dont know them...im sorry but typing while ur watching youtube aint love
2007-12-26 08:47:31 · update #2
I don't think it's outrageously funny. But I DO think it pathetically sad. Whether or not you can "fall in love" over the internet (I'm still not buying it, but who knows?!), I think your friend has a problem! She sounds very "needy" and not sure of what she really wants out of life. I think that she's actually feeling so unlovable that she's unwilling to accept that the guy she's already with could actually love her as much as he does. In which case, she'll probably never be happy and satisfied no matter WHO she thinks she's fallen in love with. Until she learns to love and respect herself and deal with whatever issues are causing her to so desperately seek the love she doesn't feel she deserves, it's never going to end. She'll only continue to drive away those who truly do love her (further proving to herself that she's "unlovable.").
2007-12-26 08:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by darylann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are people who will always never believe that you can find someone online. I used to be like that, online was always time-pass. Till I met my wife. We met online through a matrimony website, we chatted online for 3 years and then finally I went to India where she is from, we met in person, we clicked and we got married last March 2006. And so far it's going great. But yes it's strange that your friend thinks she loves someone after a couple of private messenger sessions online. Maybe she's just infatuated and doesn't know it. And her boyfriend is a stupid fool to be going along with this. If she really loved him, it's only him that should be here 1st and formost priority. She shouldn't be "cheating" in any form with no one else. Today if I start browsing matrimony sites looking for someone else..that will be "cheating" and if I should ever do that, I think my wife will have every right to leave me. Tell that guy to sit your friend down and put it straight. She has to decide who she wants. If it's the internet dude, tell him, and the boyfriend should walk away. If not she should devote her time and life to him as he has his devoted to her.
2007-12-26 07:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Fan_Of_MsInd84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where you are coming from with trying to figure out how she has lived with someone for these past months but they end up falling in love with some one whom they met for a brief time. It does happen. Maybe she likes the boyfriend and is living with him for some type of convenience but she maybe has more in common with the guy she is talking with then with the one she is living with. Maybe she actually is falling in love with this guy. so, I do not find it retarded that she found love or thinks she found it over the Internet, but, I do think that she needs to have a serious talk with her boyfriend so that he knows where she stands and that she can get him out of there and then they can both find some one better.
2007-12-26 07:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i cant judge this girl cause i dont know her i'm only judging her acts.
i think she must leave her boyfriend. doesn't she feel bad about using him whenever she feels like it? he's certainly a nice guy and he deserves to be with a girl who really respects him and loves him as much as he loves her.
as for the msnguy, i have a friend who met her boyfriend on msn and they have been together for 2 years now,they always talk on the phone........they love each other but they have never met!! how weird do u think that is?
2007-12-26 08:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that you can find true love on the internet. I just don't think this sounds like it. My wife and I met on the internet and we are in love, but we didn't get serious until we spent several months together in real time (in visits of a few days to a week each time).
This girl sounds flaky, and he's probably well rid of her.
Dana
2007-12-26 07:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dana A 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
One things for sure... she doesn't love the guy she's been living with! And more than anything you should want your friend to love who's she with, even if that requires making a few mistakes to get to real love... even though that guy's been there for, you nor him can make her love him! She doesn't... so encourage her to let him go and be with someone who will love him. And the new guy... well she may be in the infactuation stage, but it's for her to decide... just be there for her at her highs and lows...that's what friends do!
2007-12-26 07:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it funny that people think talking on the computer is having a relationship. I mean seriously does *kisses* really satisfy them? Does he virtually put his arm around her? Funny Stuff. That's ridiculous maybe you should hit her on the forehead and give her a v8.Give that girl some sense.
2007-12-26 08:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me because you reaklly dont know what the persons like because they could easily lie about everything they say plus its bnot safe to be in love with someone on the internet because they could be (.1 a killer (.2 or a very disterbed person
2007-12-26 07:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are so hard hearted but yes I fell in love on-line.I am a disabled middle aged shut-in man. God help me if I am being played for a fool again ! I do believe I have hooked up with my first true love !
2007-12-26 08:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats stupid!
shes stupid!
she has an AMAZING boyfriend
and shes just dumping him for some guy on msn..?
it doesnt make sense.
that boy needs to find a good girl.
she doesnt deserve him.
sheesh..
thats just like i dont even know.. its crazy!
maybe you should sit your friend down and tell her how stupid this is.
2007-12-26 07:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋