there's this REALLY cute boy, but idk if he likes me!?

Question

ok there's this boy at my skool. He and i met threw friends last year. We have tlked on the phone for the last year or so. He has a gf but he likes me. He told me himself that he likes me but just doesnot really know wat to do. I told him that i still liked you but i am not positive if i would ever want to go back out with you. He broke up with his xgf and then he kinda some wat asked me out and i said uhh idk. and then the next day when i said my answer he said oppz soory i am going back out with my gf. I didnot tlk to him for like 3 months. Now we are starting to talk again and he said he is going to break up with his gf and move on. I donot know wat to do?!?!Should i believe him or just move on and be bestest friends with him like we r now?!

Answer 1

It depends. If you REALLY like him, try to be understanding and forgive him for his mistakes and give your relationship another try. The worst that could happen is a breakup and you are heartbroken but keep it in the back of your mind that there is that possibility that it will happen so you won't be as upset when it actually does happen. If you just like him a little, move on and just be friends with him. Because chances are, you'll develop a much larger feeling for him than you do right now. girls always fall in love with their best friends. its just the way god made it i guess. [:

good luck!

Answer 2

Try not to be the little girl that hangs around hopelessly.
If u are a good friend then maybe thats all he sees you as.
Just bc he may still have feelings for someone he has been close to for a very long time, doesnt sugest at all that he likes u anyless but he just happens to have a stronger tie to this person.
U should tell him how u feel if u like him alot and be there for him when he needs it.
If u have advice for him in his relationship, dont be afraid to tell him what you think is best even if it might look like ur showing leaniencey
If it hurts u to see him hurt, tell him that.
If it hurts you to think that he just keeps you around as a fall back, ask him when u get a good chance.
I find that there may be somethings that are hard to say how u feel outloud to urself for confidence.
If you think that its too much to be waiting for him for so long, then keep your options open with outher ppl and if something else happens dont be afraid to go for it.
What ever happens dont be afraid to do what u feel is best.

Answer 3

Move on girl, dont stick around with boy without opinion or can't choose like that.

If he likes you, really, really likes you in the first place he should has broke up with his girlfriend to be with you and no matter what happen. He shouldnt tells you he likes you then had a on/off relationship with his girlfriend. I think he's probably just need you as a fall back because he knew there was problem in his relationship and he just tells you so to find a place to be. But still give him one more chance. If this time he did like the others. Then being independent and strong, don't be fool anymore. Cut him out of your head, cut him out of your thought. It's no worth.

But next time, just grow. You don't have to care for those.

Answer 4

Sometimes it is just good to be the best of friends. Give it some time and let the situation work it self out. If it was meant for u and him to be together it will happen. Stay focus on yourself, and your goals. U got the goods, let him chase u. U are the QUEEN. Playing games are for little kids. If he really wanted u don't u think he will be with u? U answer your own question.

Answer 5

Move he is too indecisive
But, here is my one regret. Worked with this lady and I liked her a lot and we talked many times. then due to the job, we did not talk as much, and then started again.
I never asked her the real questions. One day she was gone.
So, my regret could something have happend with us?
Will never know. Sometimes you have to take the risk, or jump into the pool to see if it will work out.

Best of luck to you. New Year's will be here soon.

Answer 6

Wow, that's really tough.. but I'm homeschooled.. and I know better, I say you shouldn't go out with him.. he's probably just maybe using you to get her jealous, or he's gonna play with your feelings. You're gonna get hurt. Just take it from me.. just move on, and be the bestest friends like you are now, because after you break up.. you won't be able to talk the way you once did...

Answer 7

don't fall for the trap again. this guy is playing around. if he asked you out again, tell this to him straightly and do not hesitate: "i am so sorry but i have changed a lot. i do not go with someone JUST LIKE YOU ANYMORE. you do not have the qualities that i can be proud of. and it would be a real shame if a friend of mine spotted us dating. i am really sorry. i have changed a lot. and i am thankful because of you now i can see. i am not blind anymore." then smile and walk out if possible. leave him open-mouthed!!!

then the next day you meet him by chance, just smile as if nothing happened:)

GO GIRL!

Answer 8

I think you should move on since clearly in the beginning their has been some confusion on who is going out with who and so on.

Answer 9

I think you should move on because he sounds like someone that would mess you about. If he's telling you he likes you, behind his girlfriend's back, do you really want to be with him?

Answer 10

If you hook up with this guy, its guaranteed he will be keeping his options with other girls completely open by calling them and telling them the same things he told you. If you can be happy with that kind of shady stuff going on behind your back, then hook up with this guy.