is it cuz of my ego?
i can't get girls to fall in love with me, what am i doing wrong?
2007-12-26 01:09:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes that happens, its some kind of been insecure or not confident make people dont get near us...
Be yourself, just yourself and a educated and kind person, know to have a clever conversation and not only abt urself, i'm sure will find a girl that likes you..
You know, what really make women dont like men:
Been selfish like hell; egocentric; no been kind nor polite; or been cheating all the time, thinking women are just like meat to eat, or so dumb that can have a decent conversation --- These is the main reasons normal women get distant or leave men....
2007-12-26 01:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kinynha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego can be both a positive drive in your life, or a negative one (or even both).
Excessive ego is a psychological problem and it can impede to move forward socially (with your boss, with family, clients, etc), especially if you lack knacks or talent to support that outter ego or compensate for it.
Your ego may very well be your problem in this case.
Some things your ego does, other than show superiority and place others in a base of inferiority, is:
make you distant
make you unknown
"hide" your flaws and place you has or close to perfect (humans theorically have flaws, you'll be disconnecting yourself from your surrounding individuals emotionally and socially)
make you seem less sentimental and more artificial
give the impression you're conciously hiding your low self-esteem, or you are subconciously low in the same.
Observe and stop to think of any instances that your ego might have gotten in your way.
Also, a helpfull thing to do would be to take risks when with a girl, observe what turns them off/on, and write it down.
Also ask your friends what qualities and flaws they find in you as far as attitudes go.
Observation is key to improvement. You were not born egotistical.
PS:confidence should not be confused with ego, they are two different things.
2007-12-26 01:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question "is it because of my ego?" it most likely is part of the problem. Women like men who are confident, however, if you are arrogant...that is not so good. Drop the ego, act nice and something may happen. You can't make someone fall in love with you, it just happens.
2007-12-26 01:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by yogurt777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You smell like a gone cabbage? You wear an old tiara with a pink smoking? Smoke cigarettes with bubble gum flavour? Act like a monkey which has just escaped from zoo?? You are extremely ugly and you use a lot of hair gel?? Maybe that`s why girls do not like you!!
Ha ha ha , I was just joking, hope you got it.......
Maybe you can try to be more attractive by wearing an outfilt or something elegant........Then,use a perfume(Armany maybe) and try to be charming, funny but in the same time serious and politicos! And if the girl invites you somewhere where you have to take off your shoes, be careful not to have dirty socks or with holes!! And which smells! In my opinion, that`s the most disgusting thing that you can see at a man! Anyway, if you are alone with a girl don`t even try to touch her in sensible spots, you know, acting like a perverse!! Don`t be rude, mean, selfish with them because that will make the girls starv out!
Follow my advice and then girls will be crazy for you!!!!!
2007-12-26 01:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To get girls to like you, you must be yourself. Don't try to hard to be something you are not. And always keep up your hygiene. ( Stay clean, brush your teeth, and smell good). Girls like someone that take care of themselves because then they know it is ok to go out with this person because he care about himself. Don't over do it though then you will be label as a pretty boy. But do have confidence in yourself. Let a turn down be your motivation for the next girl to say yes.Everyone has someone for them, you can't appeal to everyone.
2007-12-26 01:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Eric L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of person you are.
If you portrait yourself as a flirt, which girl will want to risk being your next 'conquest'?
If you portrait yourself as a self-centred egoistical idiot, which girl will even think twice bout being with you?
Best solution is to ask the girls that you have been with, ask them the reason why they will not be with you. Compile the results and you'll have your answers.
2007-12-26 01:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by alegna^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people fall in love with you. Just relax, be yourself, and stop trying so hard to make someone like you.
2007-12-26 01:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show them how strong you are. Lift up some chairs in front of them. Splash on some Old Spice aftershave. Wear a suit and tie.
2007-12-26 01:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can be many things,
you can be more successful with girls if you
learn some simple skills, most of guys naturally know these
but some don't.
things like: always smile,be confident,pick right person to talk to
be yourself,... are important.
2007-12-26 01:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by factisimportant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's one looking at you it's the one that's doing that but don't just dive right in take some time let catch you looking at her play the game then say hi and gradually go from there if she has a guy already then wait if she stops looking then find another just remember you don't know nobody till you live with them trust me on that one
2007-12-26 01:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by zippo091 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋