If a guy has a girlfriend and he wants to visit a girl he is friendly with in another country..like take vacation to see her..does he have feelings for her? Lets say they have had something intimate in the past..like kissed & flirted (before his present girlfriend), doesnt that mean that he still probably has feelings for her and that the girl he is going out with is not his 'true love'? Opinions please. Another thing, this guy loves travelling. (Im a girl by the way..ignore the avatar):)
2007-12-26 01:18:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called playing the field, keeping his options open, testing the water... any number of other names for it. Best to stay away from men like that unless you're of exactly the same mindset yourself, but if you were then you wouldn't need to ask this question.
2007-12-26 01:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy wants to go visit another girl in another country but has a steady girlfriend,he needs dumping by his girlfriend. How would he like it if it was his girlfriend going off to see another man in another country,one that she's had a little intimacy with in the past? And the fact that he had something intimate in the past with the girl he wants to visit spells a huge warning sign to me,he wants his cake and eat it,the sly dog. He can't have much respect for his girlfriend,that's for sure,and she needs warning about all this if she doesn't already know,and I'm guessing she doesn't,cos who in the right mind would be happy about this going ahead! If he were my boyfriend,I'd help pack his bags for him and make sure it was a one way ticket he bought.
2016-05-26 07:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible! I dump him immediately. How can he be trusted? How can she be trusted? Too many things there. There is no way of the girlfriend knowing what's going on when he's out there. Like most guys he'll end up flirting with her, especially if he found her attractive beforehand. Guys, no offence here, but they have a short memory span in the sense that they'll see a girl in front of them and if they like her they can't stop themselves flirting. Many women can't either. That's not to say he'll automatically do something but how can you be sure?! I don't like I'm a Celebrity but looked at that Marc Bannerman, what he did knowing cameras were on him was disgusting. He knew it would get back to the news and his girlfriend. At the end of the day nothing may happen with his girl but also everything could happen and if he's willing to hurt his girlfriends feelings by going then is he worth it? Suppose it depends how long him and the girlfriend have been dating and if they are in love. But then married men and men in long term relationships cheat! Someone needs to have a chat with him, either that or a knock on the head. :D
2007-12-26 01:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Moi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chill out girl!! this might not even be what u think u should never jump 2 conclutions, it could get u into sticky situations. this friend might just be an old friend that yes he might of kissed but how do u no that he still has feelings for her. if i were this girlfriend i would sit down and have an honest conversation and if the girlfriend doesn't feel he answers truthfully then u should just move on there's no use getting hurt over any guy , it's not worth it.
2007-12-26 01:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if he loves to travel it may not be about the girl, and just because you once had feelings for her does not mean he still does. I suggest that if he is not your boyfriend then it is none of your business... and if he is your boyfriend, i would then say go with him, and have fun!
2007-12-26 01:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by simply sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might feel something for the girl, but to be honest...try not to have high expectations, because, if it doesn´t turn out the way this girl wanted then that´ll be hard.
All the best :)
2007-12-26 01:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sheldon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has more feelings for the girl in the OTHER country than his own girlfriend. Remember, actions speak louder than words.
2007-12-26 01:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes with no strong commitment, he is able to have other friends, just the same for the girl, its part of growing up, and life.......
2007-12-26 01:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kev C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are the girlfriend, or the girl, I would butt out of other people's lives and not meddle.
2007-12-26 01:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means he is incapable of committing to one woman. He no doubt has "feelings" for every woman he sees....
2007-12-26 01:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋