He broke my truck, cheated on me, stole from me, treated me like crap and when I asked him to change his ways, he left me and tried to steal my snowmobile....and almost got away with it. I thought of posting his picture in erotic services on craigslist and giving the phone # to where he is staying....or sending embarrasing pictures of him to everyone he knows....what can I do to hurt him, like he did to me? Please no sarcasm....I usually appreciate good sarcasm, but I'm really not in the mood today. Thanks!
2007-12-26 01:17:12 · 10 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The greatest revenge would be to move on without hate or regret, find peace and fullfilment with a new life that does not involve him.
2007-12-26 01:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by ADad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on... the need for revenge indicates that you're still stuck on him. Every relationship entails taking risks. Sometimes those risks pay off, sometimes they don't. When they don't, cut your loses and invest or time and energy another more deserving person.
That's what I did when I was in your shoes and I still get e-mails from the person trying to get me back.
That's the best revenge
2007-12-26 09:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by marc m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have business cards made for him. Something along the lines of: "Walking tool for hire – Specializes in trannies, extra-heavy pleasures and male bachelor bondage parties." Put his address, phone and cell numbers on it. Drop them off in every bathroom (specifically in gay bars). Give him the business and attention he needs. When you have the time, get online and subscribe him to every mail, email gimmic and promotion you can find (make sure to tell them he loves calls at home). Then, go through the yellow pages and start making appointments to have people come over to his trailer to give him quotes for work like installing a pool and new windows, to vacuum cleaner demos and new carpet measurements. Payback is only good if you go the extra mile. He made your life miserable...return the favor.
2007-12-26 09:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the legal action for all he crap the did to you, then move on. If he broke your stuff, he needs to pay for it. If you try to do anything to hurt him, you are stooping past his level. Do you really want to be worse of a person than he is, or just forget about him and move on? Moving on will help you more than getting revenge, if you are vengeful you will be stuck on him for that much longer. Do yourself a favor and just move on, forget about him. Good luck to you
2007-12-26 10:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, revenge will indeed turn around and bite you. Not from him, but from your inside. As far as the vehicle break-in and the attempted snowmobile theft- they made our legal system and law enforcement for those matters. But that stuff is just stuff.
2007-12-26 09:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you no longer have this a*s in you life. You should be celebrating. Your best revenge is to learn from this episode in your life and move on. You need to find a good guy who can fall in love with you. This a*s will never find love because he is incapable of loving. You need to rise above it all. God bless.
2007-12-26 09:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do to hurt him, and frankly that is a pretty childish desire. Any of the behaviors you mention, only hurt you. The best revenge is being happy and productive without him.
2007-12-26 09:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greatest revenge? Happiness and success.
2007-12-26 09:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish that is best served cold.
2007-12-26 09:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sucessful he will regret leaving you
2007-12-26 09:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by dont know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋