Hi everyone how do i feel sexy as i have a tomboyishness. My walk is very strong, i can do girly but that's not my nature . I want to feel free. And does anyone have any tips on what to do when your friends are getting chatted up and not you. I feel like when i'm with other people it's more about real things like poetry and music and business ideas and entrepreneurship, that's what i'm into but when i meet up with my close friends it's like 99.9 percent of our conversation is about guys. I feel like guys arent obsessing over us, so why should we over them at times. I definitely talk about man drama as well, but i miss youth when life was about being active and free, and society didn't tell us we need men to validate ourselves. I would like to feel sexy not necessarily so every guy sees me and says god she's amazing, more so i can feel like i'm distilling a myth. Tomboys are still women, and the concept of a lady shouldnt be based on making a man feel superior as a man.More my comfort
2007-12-26 00:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by lotus flower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tomboys can be sexy in their own right and way. Being sexy starts with feeling sexy and good about who you are and yourself, and your body. In the same way, buff girls are sexy. And then just acting sexy communicates also. Sexy is often about flirting. Flirt with your eyes and body language.
Part of it is who you hang out with. Find people and groups that like to do what you do. There are guys that really dig tomboys and active women. And guys that like business orient women. Luck
2007-12-26 00:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think maybe a baby blue blouse unbuttoned a bit for cleavage and some DJ's (Distressed jeans) give it that mixed fashion vibe by adding some sleek jewellery and beautiful ballet pumps with a girly print so its a bit of your own mix up tomboy girlish. And you can still be seen as attractive not all guy's love girly girls, be yourself don't try and change to impress someone if the don't accepted you for who you are then move on!
2016-05-26 06:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the rest of the males here, but I've always found girls who were a little tomboyish very attractive! I don't want a 'man-witch', but a sports buff who isn't so precious that she can't get her hands dirty or who knows how to change a tire or shoot a gun is sexy as hell!
2007-12-26 00:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey. I'm a tomboy, too. i find it hard to act 'girly' - in fact, it makes me feel like a proper idiot! My advice would be to relax as far as finding a man is concerned. My mates are all very feminine & talk about men all the time & I find it boring. I'm married to a fantastic bloke & we talk for hours about interesting stuff (not shopping!!) & best of all, he finds me sexy in my camoflage trousers & big jumper! My point is, you will find a man who loves your 'type'. trust me, not all men go for the high-maintainance, girly sorts. Some want a best mate, too. x
2007-12-26 00:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by tinyponyhairs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are comfortable beign a tomboy, then be a tomboy. dont try to change the way you look and try to be sexy. you are sexy in your own way, and when that special someone comes around you wont need to change your look or try to be more sexy. im sure you are ok the way you are. but i understand what you are saying. its tough being a girl but hey what can you do,just go with it!!!
2007-12-26 00:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't feel you have to change as you are a tomboy.
the right guy will like you for who you are. whether you are a tomboy or an extremely girly girl.
don't worry about it - give it time
in the meantime just hang out with your friends and concentrate on having fun
good luck
wishing you a successful new year
2007-12-26 00:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by sigsall 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying to hard. If you are the athletic type you will find many men that think that is sexy. If you are at a club with the girls, then just try to put a little make up on and dress up. Not necessarily a dress but more than jeans. Men will like you for you and not for being fake.
2007-12-26 00:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Ya, tomboys are already pretty sexy. I mean, its a really hot girl, who would die to play some tackle football with you... thats like a mans dream.
2007-12-26 00:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by yamobethere324 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
every woman is different you have to find what makes you sexy. the $5000 designer dress might make a model look sexy but others its like why did she waste the money on that. find your style make it work for you. you say your tomboy well you be a sexy tomboy. go for the tighter jeans rather than baggy. tight t shirt maybe a little makup. your aiming for sexy tomboy ..........its an oxymoron i know but its up to you to change it
2007-12-26 00:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
well first off I always thought that beauty was in the eye of the beholder
and second maybe your hanging out and looking for the wrong kind of guy
2007-12-26 00:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋