and isn't it a dangerous thing to know?
2007-12-26 02:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by Psychological Moment 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Example: If a girl (randonly chosen; ugly or beatiful; smart or stupid, sexy or not, young or old; etc) was attracted to me, and i resisted any closer relationship with her (because i am afraid to fall in love), what does this mean? does it mean that i might fall in love (If I drop any conscious resistance) with any girl who loves me?
2007-12-26 02:41:27 · update #1
well i thought of it... that would be animal nature of than human one
2007-12-26 03:10:58 · update #2
i mean that is of animal nature more than of human one; something like: any female would be attractive to a male in his unconscious depths ... this is too primative.
2007-12-26 03:20:30 · update #3
I think i had to post this question in the psychology section
2007-12-26 03:24:28 · update #4
I am hovering on a certain thing; an insight; it is still foggy to me.
No I thought about it again and I found that a physical love attends with all woman, not only with those who love you... and a physical love is not a real tie to be afraid of... well... then there would be something more than just physical love with those who love you if you give in..
2007-12-26 21:22:59 · update #5
Lost Elf: I don't think people know yet what is the meaning of love.. i am into writing a big article If I obatin this suspending insight into the nature of love... a firghtening insight. i am still living it and can't catch the end... seems like it is going to be like an earthquake to my faith in what i thought love.
If you are in a relationship, your words are true; however, I am not discussing the morality of love; but love on a deeper level; genuine love that is leashed and directed by our consciousness.
Shakespeare was putting the the rules of true love. I agree with him because i lived them for a long time. Now I am tired of experimenting on myself.
Maybe you are still fresh to love.. after four years you will wake up and think... were you really in love or were you just proving how faithul humans can be.. to their imaginary friends.
i am disillusioned in such kinds of love. Unless i am into serious mature relationship built on a strong basis, love is not considered.
2007-12-27 04:59:37 · update #6
Darkstar:
deep inside you can love any person who really loves you if you "open your heart". This kind of love is not infatuation, is not materialistic, is not born in a moment, but a relatively prolonged exchange of feelings that grow stronger the more you care about each other. I am not preaching, for I, myself, can not open my heart to any girl.
But think, just think, when you feel attracted to some guy then you meet him, while fighting for your love (or what you call love) you'll go through the same stages you might go with anyone else: accepting each other, finding a common ground.. etc.. and then the process of love works for real... what makes it work? your permission.. that guy you like how he looks, or how he acts.. or something in him.. whatever.. will make you bear his nergative aspects...you will "allow" yourself to fall in love with him because you like him... the feeling you are talking about is not love, it is just an attraction. Love is deeper, love is living
2007-12-27 05:54:47 · update #7
well i think that could DEFINITELY be possible because you could like many of the same things,or you DONT like the same things. and don't have anything in common but MOST of the time they just tell you what you want to hear...you might say something like "i like red it is my favorite color" and just keep going on about it, but if you ask "what is your favorite color" chances are they are going to say "i love red too!!!" but don't..
see..they just want you too be happy and you might say you love them...but maybe you love who you THOUGHT they were. If you spend enough time w/ somebody you will eventually start to have feelings for them which may grow into something more...
2007-12-26 02:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by DesiraeBby(: 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if it were the exact right circumstances & the right place & time, then yes, there is a chance. However, the likelihood of those circumstances happening is very slim. You can't just fall in love with anyone, even if you go with the flow. People will always have someone that they aren't attracted to in the slightest. You may have people for whom affection may grow as you get better acquainted with them, but that isn't always the norm. You like whom you like, so you can't help it any.
2007-12-26 10:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to accept and receive love in all of its forms and variety. Sometimes you don't always get what you want, but you will get just what you need. Love heals. Infants that do not get touched have failure to thrive, we all need to be stroked, adored and comforted, its in our nature, its not just about sex, you need to allow that in your life so that you can be the best you can be by letting the world and the good in to love you...not everything is pure but you will survive it as long as you know that you gotta kiss a-lot of frogs before you get your prince/princess. Take Care, and go get your nourishment and love.-Rachel.
2007-12-26 11:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe you dont choose who you fall in love with. So "going with the flow"...either the feelings are there or they're not.
2007-12-26 10:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so," love is not love which alters when its ateration finds, or bends with the remover to remove"-- said by william shakespeare
2007-12-27 11:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by The Lost Elf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the flow is contingent upon the direction of the force..
2007-12-26 10:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by ogg08 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is one answer you will never know unless you choose to find out yourself -- nobody can answer this for you.
how badly do you really want to know?
2007-12-27 00:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by littlelittlestar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, to both questions.
2007-12-26 10:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Wiz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋