What can I do to win this girl? What do ya think?

Question

I love a girl but we're just friends(have told her more than a year ago but she said just wanna be friends, but she has changed toward me). She teases me often anddo funny things, like pointing out her tongue to tease me and doodling on my paper. She seems to treat me differently by teasing me a lot and pretending to be mean to me. But she's kind to me and helps a lot. We're in a lot of same school stuff. There are actually funny memorable things that she did. A few times I asked her to join me in school clubs and she agreed.

But there's this other guy who likes her too and sometimes they talk although the conversations reduce over time (they talk more a few months ago), but she seems to be interested in talking to him, though she doesn't make attempts to see him and be with him and don't joke around with him.

I got the news that that other boy is planning a hanging out with my class (me and that girl in same class). From his class only a few join. I heard from a friend that the girls in my class are joining and I assume that he asked her first. I hang out with her in groups quite often though... It was cancelled though but I'm afraid he will ask again! And we also text more - though some is about school activities...

Answer 1

Did you ever wonder why ladies like jerks? Its purpose, its the fact that a jerky guy is going to have a jerky direction for them as a couple to follow. BUT nice guys never really have a purpose because their to far up the females butt to give her a direction. So as you can see, unless you ballz up and talk to this lady, he'll win by default, without even trying. Its just the way it works. Would you rather led in a relaitonship are fellow? Same for a female, be smart about this, are loss alot of good ladies. Combind the two, be a JERK about doing the right thing, trust it well have people flocking to you. The only thing a nice guy lacks, is a bad **** attutude, if he had it, all the females would be with him, making fun of the jerks.