A couple of weeks ago, he got angry & punched me & threatened to call the cops on me for not letting him use my computer. (I'm very overprotective of my computer) Then, this past week, he went out of town & he got into an altercation with my twin sister, & he claims she stabbed him, but he didn't call the cops because he "didn't want her kids to be taken away from their mommy". He also claimed she tried to tazer & fry him & blind him with bleach. But he'd rather take my life away over something petty-since he can't take my college degree away. When I confronted him & asked him about punching me & trying to call the cops on me, his response was, "That wasn't me. That was a different person inside my body." Me & my twin sister are 24, & he's 28. Yes, I do understand his frustration about my lesbian twin sister stealing his girlfriend & bragging about it, but don't take it out on me. I'm heterosexual. My twin sister put on a facade of marriage & kids to hide her homosexuality.
2007-12-26 04:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry about the conflict that you are having. This is definitely a red flag that he is mentally challenged in someway. Is it drugs? Or is he bipolar? Whatever the conflicts that he is having is no reason to strike another person. This person is dangerous. I would seek help from a mental professional. There is a hotline to ask questions about things of this nature. Even if it a physical abuse hotline they will answer any questions that you might have concerns about. Please be safe and you really need to let someone knows that he is a time bomb! You will never know when it will be come deadly and explosive. I pray for your safety and peace!
2007-12-26 04:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure what is going on, i have the same problem with my younger brother. he is really violent & does stuff like that all the time, shoving & hitting me (over stupid stuff, like the computer...) he's even shot me before with a pellet gun, just because he thought it would be funny. i would say to try and avoid him, all the times i've tried though he's gotten really angry & its hard to since we live together but i honestly do hope your brother realizes one day that he is hurting everyone around him, even those who care about him; i know what its like to have someone in your family that you worry about so much because they act that way, & recently ive just gotten so frustrated with it that i dont care at all sometimes, & i do feel bad about it, but please dont let it take over your whole life. just try to get away from him for a while. i'm not sure what religion you guys are, but if you are christian, i think the only thing that can REALLY help him is that. wait til things are calm between you guys, then ask him if he wants to hang out with you one weekend, and you two can go to church sunday, or something. if you dont have religious beliefs, try and talk things out with him, tell him that you care about him & fear for his own well being, and hope he gets better, but until then you dont want to be around him, for your own safety.
good luck with everything
2007-12-26 04:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If in your situation I think I'd move away and forget I ever had a brother. Start new. Leave disfunction as a bad memory. I might even change my name and never communicate again with him or those that would supply him with my new home address or number.
2007-12-26 04:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should see a psychologist or psychiatrist.things are getting out of hand.and i know about this because i been depreessed and have had terrible mood swings up 2 a point where i bad-mouth my own mother,father,pretty much everybody.,and it hurts because u really dont know whats goin on inside.its hard 2 explain,but yeah he needs therapy before he does something even worse.
2007-12-26 04:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by laiiila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be lots of reasons, drugs, alcohol, mental. Tell him to stay away until he gets some help.
2007-12-26 04:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some kind of mental issue - that is serious. You may want to urge him to get some kind of help, soon!
2007-12-26 04:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by PS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's on drugs or has some bi-polar tendencies.
2007-12-26 04:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by silly_me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
geeze..sounds like a serious split personalety to me.....
2007-12-26 04:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by OMGWHO?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was drinking or he's a retard or scycalistik.
2007-12-26 04:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by mloveya245 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋