My ex-boyfriend recently split up with his girlfriend and he texts me out of the blue. Told me all about his problems and I became his shoulder to cry on. We now been flirting on text messages, also having sexual text fun, I don't know if he really likes me, as he not saying anything yet, he knows I like him, all he says 'that for me to know and for you to know etc' is he playin hard to get?
2007-12-26 03:32:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There was a reason for your first break up, don't forget that. Plus it sounds like he is on the rebound! They never work out. you end up getting hurt more the second time around... Stop the flirting and just be his friend
2007-12-26 03:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Bee Meee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not playing hard to get - he's on the rebound and looking for someone who he knows will make him feel better. An ex who he knows still likes him is the safest bet for him.
If you don't have a boyfriend and you have feelings for your ex, then see where this heads.
But be cautious that you don't get hurt, if you want commitment from him.
2007-12-26 04:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I'm in the same situation! He's probably playing hard to get. My ex's recent ex just hooked up with someone else and he's been "crying on my shoulder" and we have been flirting a little toom but no sexal :] haha and he found bust out and said that he wishes that he would have chosen m e over his ex (before he dated her) so.. That's my story so he's probably playing hard to get, but he'll come through eventually.
2007-12-26 03:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-21 19:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by maida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah hes not playing hard to get, its more like playing games with your feelings and emotions! You have to talk to him in person face to face and get everything clear on where you two are in the friendship. Text messages doesnt make things clear everything. You both might be in the same page but on a different book, get what I'm saying.
2007-12-26 03:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a direct question. You need to find out if he wants you as a friend to help with the break up or he is interested in you as a woman. Then you know where you are. If he wants you as a friend then you can continue your life with your own relationships as well as helping him but if he wants you as something more than a friend and I dont mean someone to sleep with cuse he got dumped then he has to be open and honest with you and tell you.
2007-12-26 03:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. You don't want to be the rebound. And ex's make especially good rebound relationships because they are familiar and easy to slip back into. I'd move on if I were you.
2007-12-26 03:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since no one knows the whole story just your side, it's really hard to tell. He could be trying to get back with you, but he could just be using you to get over her. Continue to be his friend but I would advise not to get close again, till he can confess his true feelings for you. You don't want to get hurt. Stay strong! I would also suggest to stop the sex texting, I know it can be fun, but he might get the wrong idea that he can sleep with you , no strings attached. When you really want your relationship back. Good Luck Sweetie, and remember STAY STRONG!
2007-12-26 03:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by dala_o_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're asking the question because you already know the answer - he is on the rebound, and feels safe going after you because you are familiar. It didn't work out for a reason, and that reason hasn't changed. Add to that the insecurity that is leading him to come back, and this spells trouble.
2007-12-26 03:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Robert W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason he is your "ex" right? Besides he is on the rebound you will mean nothing to him. Think about it if you had broken up with someone who would be the first person you call or text from the blue???? someone who was a quick lay no??????????
2007-12-26 03:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋