Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and i have fallen preganant. When i was tidying my boyfriends side table in our room today i found a small photo booth picture of his ex girlfriend. I asked him about it and he said he didnt know how it got in there. But this was a fairly new cupboard and he had only recently put his things in there so i think he obviously lying to me. He mentions his ex quite alot aparently they split up about 2 yrs ago because she chated on him with his best friend. And she also called him not long ago asking him to go round hers for a drink without me. He declined but i heard her ask about the picture and he said he still had it and wasnt going to throw it away.
Ok the questions are can i really trust him and does it seem like he cant get over his ex? What should i do.
Thanks alot
Ducky
x
2007-12-26 03:35:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS In past relationships the moment i got messed about i dumped them straight away and gave them a good kicking, but i do love this man and i am carrying his child.
2007-12-26 03:37:09 · update #1
Ive just text him and told him to go wipe his *** with his precious picture
2007-12-26 03:58:36 · update #2
coming from a man... i still have my x-gf pictures I'm not going to get rid of them not because i still wish we were together (we broke up for reason) it's because they are memories. i was with her for a reason and not all the memories are bad. what it boils down to is one day when I'm a grandfather i think it would be kinda cool to have those pictures. You must trust him your having his child! Only you can know, be realistic if you have had a past full of problems with this man about similar situations I think you can figure it out. good luck. = - )
2007-12-26 04:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by AZstyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him if its you he wants or his ex. If its her then you need to move on and I know you have his baby, and that is a hard thing to say, but do you want the next 16 years to be years of you wondering where he is every night, why he stays out late, why he has to go away on business every other week and all the stress that goes with it? You need to know honey.
2007-12-26 03:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm how far pregnant are you???
have you asked him why he has that picture??
you need to know his excuse, he might not know how it got there but that doesnt mean anything the fact is his still has it. what happens next is down to what he says.
if u cant trust him get a termination of the baby and split up with him. its not worth having a kid with a guy who you cant trust
2007-12-26 03:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say to dump him, but you're carrying his child. I would just wait and see what the heck is going on with him and his ex. It may be nothing.
2007-12-26 03:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by feline_farmer1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad you didn't find the photo in the cabinet before you got loaded. Think again.
2007-12-26 03:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Naamoku 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every one has someone they cant get over,give him time an sure all will be ok
2007-12-26 05:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by paul t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋