Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

2007-12-11 05:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Hottie 101 1 in Singles & Dating

She's having surgery today. Her and my brother just can't get pregnant and she's had two miscarriages now. She's having surgery today because her tube is getting bigger and they need to see why.
The thing is these are really GOOD people and they deserve a baby and would make the best parents. My heart goes out to them. I ask for your prayers and bless them in this trying time of their lives.

2007-12-11 05:05:29 · 20 answers · asked by JK 2 in Family

I recently seperated from my husband of 2 years. It was not a good marriage as he was into cocaine and would not come home many nights and would turn his phone off after I would try calling him. Shortly after moving out I started dating someone I had been friends with since the 3rd grade. Long story short, things moved fast and I am now pregnant. My soon to be ex-husband knows about the news. I'm wondering if anyone has been (I know it's a unique situation) in this situation or if they know of anyone who has, and how it all turned out? I really appreciate any responses.

2007-12-11 05:04:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im in FL and my son is 10 months old...the judge agreed to let him have my son for 1 week a month... okay well he wont tell me who is watching our son...his mother is the supervisor and I am pretty sure she is at work and if thats the case, who is watching my son...He wont tell me... He supposidly fired his attorney but does anyone know if he can not not tell me...we have joint custody I have physical placement and he has supervised visitation one week a month.... this is the first week my baby is there....please....my attorney hasn't responded to me so I dont know what to do....

2007-12-11 05:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i did alot off of bad things in my life but i realize how bad that was so now im trying to change so that people can see the good in me not the bad .

2007-12-11 05:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-11 04:59:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 04:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by smile 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i avoid falling into the "marriage trap"? what i mean by that is i always want my husband to find our sex life fun and exciting and i want him to never forget that first and foremost i am a hot blooded woman. we get along great but sometimes it seems that he sees me more as a wife and best friend than a hot and bothered woman. i have to remind him by wearing lingerie and getting into bed naked with perfumed body oils and such. he has said before in the past that he thinks i'm "worth more than just being his sex toy" and treats me like a million dollars. this is great and i consider myself very lucky but i dont want him to get tempted to cheat for "thrills and excitement" because he still sees me as his life companion but not as a lusty woman. got any suggestions for how i can remind him that i may be his best friend and partner in crime but that im also a woman who wants to sexually pleased and pleasing. i already take care of myself, work out, and im young.

2007-12-11 04:57:11 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 04:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by I Love Emanuel! 2 in Weddings

Shew..Okay here it goes.

My wedding was planned for Nov. 2008
now, because of reasons such as: illnesses and wanting certain family members to be there (great grandmothers)
Our families are encouraging us to bump up the wedding to this April!!!! This means i would have 4 MONTHS to pull everything together!

Which means starting from scratch with the colors, food, dresses, EVERYTHING!!!

I just want to know, is it possible to do this?? If so, how should i go about getting everything together in such a quick time!?!?!?!?

2007-12-11 04:54:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i met a boy 2 days ago in internet. he lied much about him. today we were arguing and in one situation he called me '******'. should i revenge on him and how? or i should forget it?

i wanna say that as a muslim girl that word is just intolerable and insultingfor me.

2007-12-11 04:49:03 · 23 answers · asked by Mim 1 in Singles & Dating

man?

2007-12-11 04:47:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

During my merriage I most of cheat at least 500 times with 48 different girls and this were not just one night stand AND becouse I was selfish and stupit I lost my family in a divorce battle. Next day I woked up a different person, I lost my 2 daugthers a wife person who gave me 18th years ( 5 dating and 13 on merriage ), I was destroy in every way a person can be destroyed.Mentaly, emocionatly, spiritualy, financialy.
I learn the hard way, what life is all about. Now I got merried again after a year of being divorce. She is a real nice and mentaly mature 22 years old. she it's 16 years younger than me. We got merried on Oct 27. and I don't feel I could cheat on her not even one time.... I don't know if that it's for the thruma I went of becouse it's just not right............I don't want to fail again..what should I do

2007-12-11 04:46:47 · 15 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and she as 4 of them she has lost har job and is trying to move in with her collage kids but my husband told his kids if that happened he would stop helping them with rent you would think she would go away but not she call my husbands mother up and asks if she can stay in her town house and i think his mother is going to let her. my husband just sits back and lets this go on.
then im to have this mother and his kids over and feed them and play nice. the kids are 17,19.21.24 and my husband has had them for 15 years alone with out his ex's help. why do they want to help this woman who can go out and find a job and pay her own rent why?????

2007-12-11 04:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never liked leftovers. It has to be something really, really, really good for me to want to eat it the next day. In any event, fried foods are not even a consideration for me. I don’t care for them to begin with but I especially hate leftover catfish, chicken or porkchops. He will eat leftovers for two or three days. Also, he will grab food from last week’s dinners and eat that. I am very particular about eating food that’s sat too long because I am afraid of getting food poisoning.

He, other the other hand, will leave mayonnaise, ranch dressing, tartar sauce, etc. in his lunchbox over night (sometimes over the weekend) and will turn right around and eat it. I try to cook just enough for the two of us because we have a history of wasting food (since I don’t eat leftovers), but when I do that he complains because he wants to have some left for lunch the next day. I don’t see why it’s such a big deal to him.

2007-12-11 04:41:03 · 18 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a high sex drive and I am ashamed of it...everytime I try to express myself sexually I feel heavy guilt and shame but at the same time my need for sex is so high that I feel tormented inside. When I am engaged in sex I try very hard not to enjoy it as I dont want my desire to get too high and then I can barely control myself.......cause when that happens I end up feeling more ashamed and more gulity and most of all unsatisfied with sex. I dont know whats wrong with me, why my sex drive is so high..........I don't know what to do...........advice anyone?

2007-12-11 04:39:02 · 20 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boobs go hard when i'm around people by themselves, and when i go to bed i just think about my ex-girlfriend! i get really strange dreams about her aswell as if we are together again, Does it mean anything?

Should i meet up with her again?

And if you had a one night stand with Two people at the same time does this count as Cheating when we are having a seperation period?

2007-12-11 04:38:50 · 15 answers · asked by Love_Me_Jaffa_X_O_X 2 in Singles & Dating

My baby daddy left me for another hoe a while back, but now he says she don't do it as good as me and wants to git back wit me, should I take him back?

2007-12-11 04:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says she will be responsible and that she already wants to start a life with me so i wanna know wat others have to say nothing rude plz

2007-12-11 04:38:08 · 17 answers · asked by YEAHH!!! MAN!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering... when do u think is the best time in a relashionship to tell someone something about bad about you that might hurt them...Should u be honest from the start, or should you wait to see what type of person they are before you tell them???
By something bad it's something that not everyone would think its bad, it's just something that depends on the other person understanding it and still wanting to be with u....
i hope this makes sense.... but just wondering... i know trust is important and honesty... but then when do u start to open up all the deep secrets and stuff. cos if u do it too early ... u might scare a person off.. but if u leave it too late,,, its a lie then...

2007-12-11 04:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by sbalroarhe 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy we dated for like four months then ended things in the summer. things ended pretty bad like we didnt speak at alll for four months until this past weekend when i went to a party he was having . well we ended up hooking up and he has been texting me asking to hang out everyday since. i just dont know if i should give this another try and go for it or not. has anyone else been in this position before? im so confused on what i should do... (and while we were dating he liked me way more than i liked him at the time) but when i was at his party this past weekend things seemed different..

2007-12-11 04:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just received some silver rim porcelan dinnerware.
It says on the dinnerware, and on the box, you can put this in the dishwasher, but will the silver part come off?

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2007-12-11 04:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

how is the best form to tell ur gf that ur ex-gf n true luv is gonna move back and u still luv her and she luv u after ur gf give u her virginity as a B-Day gift she did on ehr own free will? i dnt wanna make her cry or hate me or think i use her
im not that guy
in case ur wodnering my ex-gf isnt virgin but i luv her i wasent the first but i luv her we havnt had sex

my gf dsnt know about my ex n my ex dsnt know about my gf

i defently luv my ex mor

im18 ex-gf 16 gf 15 when i had sex with my gf iw as still 17 so i cant egt in trouble if she tell someone

2007-12-11 04:31:43 · 4 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 04:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by meda 1 in Friends

Why rush off to the county clerk's office to get married (in the U.S.) only to turn around and either 1) lie to friends and family about being married or 2) further deceive everyone by putting on a fake ceremony later. That's a pretty big lie to have to cover up for free people living in the U.S. And how unAmerican is that for miliary to do that?

2007-12-11 04:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sondra 6 in Weddings

weve been friends for almost a year now and in that year weve became very close. i think i might even be in love with him. He has only had one girlfriend in his life and all his friends tell me he likes me but he hasnt ask me out yet and i think its because hes scared i dont no what to do i want to be his girlfriend so bad. he knows i like him ive made that clear. i just dont no what to do im tired of waiting for him to be ready do i tell him to grow sum ba*ls and ask me out or hes gonna lose me or just let him go. i cant be just friends with him any more i want something more please help how do i get him to ask me out? im positive he likes me. i just dont no what his deal is. please help.

2007-12-11 04:25:04 · 39 answers · asked by lettingyougo5013 1 in Singles & Dating

and bikinis I have bought for her!

Is it that wrong that I miss seeing those outfits worn around the house?

2007-12-11 04:23:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys and girls may answer.

2007-12-11 04:21:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like what would turn you on personally

2007-12-11 04:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want her out of my life but i care about her alot so when she calls i become a big puss and answer. weve been off and on for so long and she isnt willing to give me what i need. looking for advice on how to ignore her so shell go away....i need self control tips.

2007-12-11 04:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating