During my merriage I most of cheat at least 500 times with 48 different girls and this were not just one night stand AND becouse I was selfish and stupit I lost my family in a divorce battle. Next day I woked up a different person, I lost my 2 daugthers a wife person who gave me 18th years ( 5 dating and 13 on merriage ), I was destroy in every way a person can be destroyed.Mentaly, emocionatly, spiritualy, financialy.
I learn the hard way, what life is all about. Now I got merried again after a year of being divorce. She is a real nice and mentaly mature 22 years old. she it's 16 years younger than me. We got merried on Oct 27. and I don't feel I could cheat on her not even one time.... I don't know if that it's for the thruma I went of becouse it's just not right............I don't want to fail again..what should I do
2007-12-11 04:46:47 · 15 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh, yeah, I wouldn't cheat on a 22-year-old either if I were in your shoes. Duh.
2007-12-11 05:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy - when you get tempted or an urge to cheat - run home into your wifes arms or call her immediately. Don't think this young wife of yours will be willing to put up with your past actions; remember the love you feel for her and how much pain you would bring to her for a some fleeting moments of infidelity.
Be a good boy! You know you can!
2007-12-11 04:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spare her the pain and leave her now! Before she wastes her life on you!
Or accept the fact that you have matured and have had a hard lesson in life. Did you get the lesson? I don't know, only time will tell.
You can avoid putting yourself in situations were you are exposed to other women, especially alone. Spend more time with her and learn to be happy with her company. Know who you are and you can stop being who you were.
Yoda out
2007-12-11 04:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't cheated on your second wife. I think maybe you have learned your lesson? It sounds to me that you have. And that's a good thing. If you know in your heart and in your mind that you won't cheat on her, then you'll be okay. Maybe your first wife didn't make you happy and maybe you didn't make her happy. You have another chance now with your second wife. Don't make the same mistakes and you'll be fine. Just know that what you did was wrong and that you've changed. Sometimes we need to go thru the hardest lessons learned to finally get it right. Good luck!
2007-12-11 04:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, learn to control yourself, It is amazing to me that people screw around like if they don't its going to fall off, or close shut, crap , I have been with my man for 19 years, he is the only person that i have ever been with. Instead of cheating with others, hell cheat with your wife, I am going to tell you something, that I really shouldn't but here goes, Let her go to the bar, 30 minutes or an hour later, you go and flirt with her and pick her up, get my drift. What is wrong with you people, have a little fun with sex, its the whole point in the first place.....
2007-12-11 05:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have learned the value of love. You have learned a lesson the hard way. Be good to her and she will be good to you. I wish you the best. Don't dwell on the past, just learn from it, move on and live the rest of your life in a way that is good and you will be fine.
2007-12-11 05:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That girl is with a disgusting, old pig like you? We should all pray for her. You need to do that poor gal a favor and get rid of her before you break her heart. She doesn't deserve to be with someone like you! I'm sure she deserves much much much better! anyone would!
2007-12-11 05:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea5499 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your dick in your pants and remember the stupid choices you made in the past and remember the consequences. If that doesn't help you then nothing will and accept the fact that you're not ready for commitment.
2007-12-11 05:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!!!!
This should be on the cover of Cosmo:
Dumb Women, Dumber Choices!
2007-12-11 05:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of the trailer park.
2007-12-11 04:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? About what? You can't cheat on your wife, which sounds loke a very good thing. Where is your problem?
2007-12-11 05:00:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋