I have a high sex drive and I am ashamed of it...everytime I try to express myself sexually I feel heavy guilt and shame but at the same time my need for sex is so high that I feel tormented inside. When I am engaged in sex I try very hard not to enjoy it as I dont want my desire to get too high and then I can barely control myself.......cause when that happens I end up feeling more ashamed and more gulity and most of all unsatisfied with sex. I dont know whats wrong with me, why my sex drive is so high..........I don't know what to do...........advice anyone?
2007-12-11 04:39:02 · 20 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Screw that, I have a high sex drive and damn proud of it. I want it went I want it. If he won't give it I'll do myself and enjoy that too. I will do it myself at least twice a day if I'm able to. I'm not ashamed u shouldn't be either. Enjoy ur spouse/boyfriend and enjoy urself!
2007-12-11 04:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you all needed to get this straight before marriage I would say. Now, he cheated and it was wrong. But then you are only doing everything to help it happen. Look, I think 3 or 4 times a day is excessive, but then some are like that. One of the big reasons to marry is to be able to have sex without it being a sin. Also, once married, your body belongs to your mate as much as to you. Yes, that applies in both directions and it does not simply apply to the sex organs. He should help you with his hands or whatever if you need help in something. The same applies to you. Married couples are only to refrain from sex for an agreed upon period of time, lest the person saying no causes the other to be tempted. What is it with you women? I do not get it. I mean, have you ever had a bad orgasm? Even a horrid one is good. And again, one of the few benefits of a man to marry is to have sex.
2016-04-08 08:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew how old you are. I've always had a high sex drive, but it diminished a few years back and I didn't think much about it at the time. Then when my hubby told me he wanted a divorce because he had been cheating for 7 years and had finally gotten a g/f pregnant I realized that my lack of desire was directly proportional to his cheating. After our divorce I began dating and have found that my sex drive is as high as it ever was!!! AND my Significant Other also has a high sex drive so we are perfect together.
Don't be ashamed of having a high sex drive. Men love it--and I've also discovered they like "moaners, groaners and screamers!!! Just enjoy the sex and give your partner as much pleasure as you can in return.
You should both be having loads of fun!!!
2007-12-11 05:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you shouldn't be ashamed nor guilty about your sex drive. the only reason why you're enjoying sex because you try to control it. so what it get out of control, enjoy it instead trying to control it. There are so many people would enjoyed to have that kind of sex drive or half of it. Be glad you're among the few have such a drive in that department. Enjoyed it that is the best advise I can give you and stop being ashame.
2007-12-11 05:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with having a high sex drive. I have one and to me its perfectly normal to enjoy somehing that is so natural. Everyone has different levels but if you're uncomfortable or feeling guilty with your level then you may have issues accepting your sexuality. Sex should be an experience that you can be open with, enjoyable , and satisfying. You're stressing yourself out about how much you like it and you're making yourself ashamed of expressing your feelings when instead you should be embracing it and enjoying the experience.
2007-12-11 04:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it and you should enjoy it. You just need to find a partner who also has a high sex drive and you guys will both be set. Trust me, there are lots of people out there with a high sex drive. This can be a problem if your partner does not have a high drive like you and it can cause conflict and arguments. Otherwise enjoy it.
If this does start to interfere with work and your safety, then you should see a therapist. It should not cause you to miss work or affect your life negatively. Otherwise enjoy it and don't feel guilty!
2007-12-11 04:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by whowhat? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be ashamed of having a high sex drive; enjoy it with that special someone in your life! Most guys would love to have a wife/girlfriend with a high sex drive who actually enjoys sex.
2007-12-11 04:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, Well, Well. Doesn't sound like too big of a problem to me. If you really feel that way about your sex drive being so high, just "take care of yourself" while you're taking care of the other person and they're taking care of you. If you use the right devices and/or toys, at the right time and on teh right places, nine times out of ten, I bet you "Satisfy yourself" so much that all you'll want to do afterwards is pass out, especially if you've had some nice wine and the mood is right and the person you're with, KNOWS WHAT THEY'RE DOING AND LIKES TO DO IT!! Don't beat yourself up, just "Take more CARE OF YOURSELF, and I bet your problems will solve themselves!!
2007-12-11 04:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dub-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with a high sex drive as long as it with your significant other, unless you have that type of relationship to share with others. You should let the one you're with know this, so maybe ya'll can come up with new ideas of how to satisfy that taste without going to an outside person.
2007-12-11 04:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by mstrphnk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy my high sex drive! I get as much pleasure from sex as I can and when my wife is not in the mood I masturbate and I enjoy doing that too.
OUR DRIVES ARE OKAY! Enjoy sex! Enjoy pleasure!
2007-12-11 05:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋