and bikinis I have bought for her!
Is it that wrong that I miss seeing those outfits worn around the house?
2007-12-11 04:23:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, if she had kids and ur knocking her weight give me ur address and I'd be more then happy to fly to ur house to kick the sh*t outta u! How bout this u like the lingerie YOU WEAR IT!
2007-12-11 04:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
First off, I do not know if your intention was to come across so selfish, but you did.
Women are made up differently than men. It's a fact. Men can stay their same size for years. Years! Women will gain weight easier and quicker than men will. It's a fact.
So if you bought her some bikinis, buy the next size up then. Granted the woman you use to recognize may not be around the house, but the amazing woman you married is. Maybe if you would still show her that you are interested in her and show her you still think she is sexy, then she will try loosing a little bit of weight.
In the end.... get over it. It happens. If you only married her for her body, you have more issues than any of us on Yahoo can help you with.
2007-12-11 04:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dee C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Has she had any children? Does she work and care for the house - therefore having little time to take care of herself. Encourage her in efforts to keep fit, offer to take a nightly walk around the neighborhood or talk about joining a gym together and hiring a babysitter at least 1x or 2x a week to go together or go on alternate days and share babysitting chores with each other (giving each of you some one on one time with the kids). Buy bikes for you each to go riding on a nice days (if you have kids they can go too - either in safety seats attached to your bike or on their own if they are old enough). Instead of whining about a situation, look for solutions to correct or resolve it.
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-12-11 04:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Women have a harder time staying thin than men. Especially after giving birth. There's nothing wrong with wanting her to lose weight. however, you have to realize that time affects everything. I would hope you don't lose feelings for her becuase of the way she looks. If it really bothers you, try working out together. Encourage her to come to the gym with you to spend time together.
2007-12-11 04:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by KnottyJ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
help her lose the weight by encouraging her to do workouts, go to the gym and also tell her that its not as well as healthy to be overweight co'z it has a lot of disadvantages it will gives her insecurity and some health problems and of course theres nothing wrong in telling your wife to get back in shape...just do it in a sweet way....
2007-12-11 04:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by ToxoTes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I don't think your wrong for wanting her to loose a little weight. When I had my child I gained 60 lbs. and i noticed that my husband was treating me a little oddly(not wanting to have sex as much). So I hit the gym and the diet pills! And I ended up losing more than I had gained. Some might say that its wrong and u shouldn't suggest that your mate lose a little weight but I know men are very visual and I always want to look good for my husband. So maybe you can suggest it in a subtle way. Like by saying "we" should start going to the gym or somethin like that. Just dont say anything offensive because women are sensitive when it comes to things like body image.
2007-12-11 04:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
not wrong of you to feel that way but it would be wrong of you to say it like that to your wife......because you are suppose to love her no matter what; perhaps for Christmas you can get a family membership to a gym and work out with her....find healthy meals that the two of you can cook together; watch the finale of The Biggest Loser tonight...
2007-12-11 04:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As women age, their bodies tend to pack on more weight.
Especially if her metabolism is slow.
Don't knock her for her weight. The average adult gains between 3 to 5 pounds yearly, especially after the age of 40.
2007-12-11 04:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong that you miss seeing them...what's wrong is if your feelings towards your wife have changed b/c of that. Before you married her, you should have made sure that you would love her no matter what was on the outside, because across the course of time, looks are going to fade.
2007-12-11 04:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by ¤¤Je§§ica¤¤ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Women have to deal w/ weight issues for things beyond their control like hormones, tyroid, etc... It's harder for women to lose weight than it is for men, especially once they hit the Magical age of 30 !! But you should Love your wife regardless !!!! Buy her some New Clothes to prance around the hosue in for you.
2007-12-11 04:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by casper 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋