Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

2007-12-11 05:42:59 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

I am frightened.

2007-12-11 05:42:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so miserable and very very hurt. I have been with a man for the last 6 yrs and from the very beginning I was told he is trash. He has 2 kids from his 1st wife and another kid with an ex gf. He has a really bad rep and no one really respects him or has anything good to say about him. Mind you.. and this is NOT an excuse he is a lot older than me and I guess that I was a bit naive at the time. I dated this man and I truly believed that he really loved me and I cant say that for anyone else I have been with. Ppl say things and do things all the time but I just know this guy did love me for real. Anyway it ended up that he was cheating on me and when i confronted him he made excuses but when he saw i didnt beleive them and his stories did not match he told me he would deal with this matter. He never did bring it up and continued to see her and i found out again. I have since dumped him but have done a lot of thinking. I do love him a lot but i just cant put up with this nonsense.

2007-12-11 05:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 30 years old, and my mother contacted me to inform me what she was going to give my wife and I for Christmas. I feel that the gift is too much money, and the only reason I see for it is because she is spending the same amount on my brother and sister. My parents aren't made of money and I feel that this amount is unnecessary. How do I handle this situation???

2007-12-11 05:40:49 · 41 answers · asked by dilfer99 1 in Family

does every living thing in the house come to join you? I get both my children, two cats, 3 dogs and on occassion, my husband. Is this the only time they feel I can give them my undivided attention?

2007-12-11 05:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Sptfyr 7 in Family

Ive finally had it, I cant take my marriage anymore. My husband has had a drug problem(cocain) for the entire time that we've been married,(1 year)when he is high, he gets paranoid & saids im cheating on him & he starts going crazy all around the house looking for whoever im cheating with. If my friends bring one of their friends around, it atomatically is the guy that im soposibly cheating with. I've never even come close 2 thinking about cheating. His mind is just not righ anymore & everytime hes on drugs, he gets crazy, not towards me thank God! But this problems has my family & friends just so confused. Ive tried 2 get him help, but he wont go, ive called the cops and he stoped for only 2 weeks, I just dont want to deal with it anymore, but i feel so bad because im the only person he has & I feel guilty for leaving him, but im just so unhappy. When i meet him he was a wonderful person & i know he still has it in him, somewhere but ive just lost all hope

2007-12-11 05:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by lacrazy010 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So if you read in my previous questions, you will see that i have been talking to this real sweet guy who is amazing! Everything is great but here lies the question: Saturday night was my company's christmas party~i went with the girls at my work and we were all having a great time. 11:00pm roles around and i get a call from him asking me if i wanted to go over there. I was already feeling pretty good and i wanted just to hug him, cuddle;etc..so i said yes. I get there, i could tell that we both had been drinking...so like most drunks, you don't think about what you do first, you just do it...and we had sex. It was great but awkward in the morning. He was still playful towards me, but i preceded to get ready. So i tell him goodbye and he said he would call me later,..i said "maybe". Well he didn't call and i wrote an e-mail to him stating that "it must have been a mistake and he must regret it". he replied to me "No it wasn't a mistake and i don't regret it,(will add more details)

2007-12-11 05:34:28 · 22 answers · asked by Nicole H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think iam stuck...i want an divorce?? n he said no....i asked 4 1 five yrs ago he said no...now i just can take any more...the cheating n the lien...his attuide..i just cant take any more..the kids are all grown ..we have an bank account that join that only have $3 in it ...an house thats worth $550,000 in thats it, and everything else is seprated....he dont want 1..now he locked up...n i ready 2 leave...what should i do?? n can i divorce him even if he dont want it???

2007-12-11 05:33:13 · 16 answers · asked by corey g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Going down the aisle, do you believe it will be forever or only hope it will? Do you expect complete faithfulness or do you expect your spouse to play around?

2007-12-11 05:32:06 · 43 answers · asked by TatersPop 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He was abusive and promiscuous. Both physically and emotionally. Admittedly I was not a perfect wife but I did try. My ex now spreads all sorts of stories about me to relatives. Some are based on truth (e.g. Yes, when I was 19 and before we were together I was treated for Chlamydia from my first and only other sexual parter- He thought my whole and his whole (conservative) extended family needed to know this.

Other things are barefaced lies e.g. 'some of our problems were due to her recieving phonecalls from men all the time'. I was SO faithful to him and he knows this yet a seed of doubt is planted into the mind of anyone who hears this.

He on the other hand was blatently promiscuous.

Hasnt he done enough damage? We are separated now, why does he want to try and drag my name in the mud?

2007-12-11 05:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 05:28:42 · 25 answers · asked by had2laugh01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-11 05:27:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok help me out here! I go out of my way to do almost anything for my step son who is almost 8 to make him feel special. Don't get me wrong, I make him work for what ever he wants like video games etc by doing chores, and such... but I believe in rewarding a job well done. About 2 years ago I got him a PS2 for xmas (6yrs old now!!) because it was something he really wanted. When he opened it and a few games I had got with it he tossed it down and said that's all I get? Where's the rest of it. NOW this year, I ask him if you got ONE thing for your birthday (which is close to xmas) what would you want. His response.... "I ONLY GET 1 THING!! THATS CRAP" It's not just this, homework is a hassle, bedtime is hell and I am the main disciplinary in our house. So how good does this make me look when I take away his PS2 and empty out his room of everything but a bed. Im the bad guy because his parents don't want to be the bad guy.

2007-12-11 05:26:14 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whether ur single or not....but this question is leaning more towards people who ARE single!

2007-12-11 05:24:54 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was married before we met and his ex wife cheated on him. Him and I have been married for 4 years. During the summer we took a vacation and he saw a motorcycle and commented that he liked it. An idea came to me and I decided to get him one for his birthday. I approached my boss and asked for extra hours and was told no. So I got a part time job and never told my husband, all I told him was that I was needed to work extra hours. I wanted to surprise him with the motorcycle. I found a used one as that was all I could afford and had a guy custom paint it and fix it up. I made arrangements for it to be delivered to my husband on his birthday. A few days before his b-day he came home and was mad. He asked where I had been and I told him at work. I was at work earlier that day, at my 2nd job. He told me he had gone to my 1st job to take me out to lunch and I wasn't there and where was I? He accused me of cheating and I told him I am not cheating and he needs to trust me on this.

2007-12-11 05:24:39 · 24 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a lot more family than him, so there's a lot more travel in my direction. How much is ok to ask of him? (We've been dating 10 months.)

2007-12-11 05:24:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am feeling really depressed right now and I miss my kids and i feel like my life is over, my wife threw me out made up some lies about me to the apt manager and the apt manager is going to have me arrested if i go on the property, so i cant see my kids i have not seen them in over 3 mo and it is really depressing for me i feel like i want to cry and hope my life will end soon.

2007-12-11 05:22:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

divorce if need be?

2007-12-11 05:19:33 · 15 answers · asked by catchiamigo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would it take to make you cheat on your significant other? Would you cheat just for a pretty face, money, because you're lonely and the other person is there for you?

2007-12-11 05:18:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was attacked and raped by a boy a few years older than me when I was 17, afterwards I didn't tell a soul and it drove me to depression and near suicide, I went to counselling and although I haven't forgotten what happened to me I have tried (and to a certain extent succeded )to get on with my life. I met my husband and we have been together for nearly 20 years and we have 2 wonderful kids, (I have never told him of the attack either) but since the death of my mother at the start of this year it's bringing it all back, and I am now full of regret that I didn't confide in her and that I put her through real heartache without her knowing what had really happened to me. How can I move on ?

2007-12-11 05:15:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I was at school in the 90s we had computers called apple mackintosh. And on it was something called mac a mug were you had to make faces dose anyone remember it? and are there any sites like that on the internet? and also are there any sites were I can do jigsaws? anyone no?

2007-12-11 05:13:12 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

These mean old, fox addicted,talking point driven geezers expect gifts every year for their b'days and Christmas yet they have everything anyone could want? They're going to live to be 100 like strom thurmond -what am I to do?

2007-12-11 05:13:00 · 4 answers · asked by liberalthinktank 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any suggestions? Bear in mind that he insulted my mate Flo today. She's not happy.......

2007-12-11 05:12:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 05:12:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you dump her or stay with her, knowing shes gunna b a mom.??

2007-12-11 05:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

myself it.s when i.m watching movies .

2007-12-11 05:10:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going out with a guy this weekend and we want to do something fun other than dinner and a movie...something where we can talk but flirt and have a good time together...any ideas?

2007-12-11 05:09:59 · 14 answers · asked by JustForFun101 3 in Singles & Dating

Especially if it was the other partner who cheated.Does it have a positive effect or a negative effect on the next relationship

2007-12-11 05:08:47 · 16 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wedding planning can be stressful, and at the least is full of a lot of details unless you're having a very simple affair.

What did you forget while you were busy planning, if you did it yourself? I cannot afford a coordinator, so I'll doing it all on my own. (By on my own, I mean, with my fiance, my mother, his mother, and my aunt.) Was it detrimental that you forgot it? Do you wish you had remembered?

Were there things outside of the wedding that you forget to do (like find a place to live) ? How did life outside the wedding stay organized?

2007-12-11 05:08:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anouk 1 in Weddings

i do sometime.s 24 just not enought .

2007-12-11 05:07:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends