Would you dump her or stay with her, knowing shes gunna b a mom.??
2007-12-11 05:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not doing ti i dont even have a gf
2007-12-11 05:44:45 · update #1
are you sure she was raped? or is she trying to play it off because she got pregnant. that girl is going to have issues either way...... i would break up with her but not right away
2007-12-11 05:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm guessing you are very young or just very immature ... she may be better off without you if you even had to ask that question ... being raped was not her fault .. do you know for fact the baby is from the rape and not from you ? ..either way that baby is a part of her .. i know many people have different feelings on if a mother should have a rape baby ... i think its up to the mom ..after all it is a part of her too ... if you are her bf you should be standing by her and helping her through this difficult time ...
2007-12-11 05:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first subject Im sorry your g/f replaced into placed via some thing that vile yet so which you would be able to assert you will boost the toddler as your own makes me experience like there are some actual adult adult males left interior the worldwide.... I dont see something incorrect with you elevating the toddler as your own yet you ought to choose for earlier hand which you will on no account seem at that toddler & blame him/her for something that could arise on the subject of the rape... the toddler is a sufferer additionally... I want you 2 the main suitable reliable luck
2016-11-02 21:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by serpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I dump her? It's not her fault. Besides, I'm the boyfriend. If I dumped her, would that not question whether or not I cared about her? Does a guy really care about his girlfriend if he is liable to dump her if she gets raped?
If my girlfriend got raped, I'd make sure I am there for her. Because that situation is when she needs me the most.
2007-12-11 05:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by niiro13 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if my girl got raped i would try to hunt down the guy that did it first of all. but most importantly i would be there for my girl. this is a time in her life when she needs support more than she's ever needed it before.
if i was truly in love with her id stay with her. its up to her whether or not she'd keep it but id stand behind her 100% and show her how much she means to me.
2007-12-11 05:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is going to have a child, it is HER child, regardless of the way that child was conceived. If she is willing to work through the emotional anguish of what happened enough to bring that baby into the world... it's obvious she loves that baby. Enough to carry him/her for nine months, go through labor, give birth, then and love and care for him/her the rest of her life. I would be in complete and total admiration of a woman who is that strong! If her boyfriend can't appreciate all that, and can't accept her decision to have the baby, then maybe he has no business being her boyfriend.
2007-12-11 05:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! She's keeping the baby? I she in her right of mind? I know I wouldn't keep the baby, sad but true, I wouldn't be able to go on bringing up this child knowing that the father(maybe unknown) had raped the mother. How do you explain that one? but your question is difficult to answer. You know what you must do.
2007-12-11 05:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
jesus, what a horrible situation.. I don't think anyone can even answer what we'd do right now, not being in it. It would really depend how long we've been dating.. if it were like 6 months or so i'd prolly just dump her.
2007-12-11 05:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You shouldn't dump her, she needs support, that is probably the rudest thing that you could do. Its not like it is her fault.
2007-12-11 05:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow, really tough question. I don't envy anyone in that situation.
2007-12-11 05:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋