He was abusive and promiscuous. Both physically and emotionally. Admittedly I was not a perfect wife but I did try. My ex now spreads all sorts of stories about me to relatives. Some are based on truth (e.g. Yes, when I was 19 and before we were together I was treated for Chlamydia from my first and only other sexual parter- He thought my whole and his whole (conservative) extended family needed to know this.
Other things are barefaced lies e.g. 'some of our problems were due to her recieving phonecalls from men all the time'. I was SO faithful to him and he knows this yet a seed of doubt is planted into the mind of anyone who hears this.
He on the other hand was blatently promiscuous.
Hasnt he done enough damage? We are separated now, why does he want to try and drag my name in the mud?
2007-12-11 05:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex did the same thing to me. I just ignored it. It was hard but it worked. People would ask about his lies and I would simply respond that if they really knew me they already knew the answer to their question. Eventually he gave up because people quit listening to him because I was wasn't letting it stir up drama or affect my happiness. My guess is he is probably doing this because he can't or won't accept his part in the end of your marriage. Keep your chin up and don't let him ruin your happiness anymore!
2007-12-11 05:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's doing it because he thinks he can get to you emotionally and you're letting him.
So what if you were treated for an STD years ago?
So what if he's spreading lies about you - the truth will come to light.
So what if he's being a dog? Every dog has his day.
That said, so what if your conservative family knows about what happened long ago? Again, the truth will out -
For now you're going to take some chaff about all of this - but don't worry - time wounds all heels. He's in for a big show soon enough.
All you can do is say nothing - hold your head up high and rise above all this.
Not easy to do - but it's the mature adult thing to do.
Eventually this will blow over and even his doting mum will have to admit she raised a snake.
2007-12-11 05:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 14:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that 88 is doing this because he has a very low selfesteem but let me make you fell better
my x husband of 7 years who never see nor take our children nor buy b'd gift leave about 5 minute walk to my home decide to put me throw hell after I got remaried now he is charging me of kidnaping my 15 years and he wants child suport we had 3 children my new husband is paying for school for all 3
the x did not even come to the graduations nor ofeer supports financially, nor emotionally since we move out of state but always return for business during which the children are always with us, he know we are in town because the children or me will always inform him (I have proof )
but he alsways chooses not to get in touch, instead of helping pay his son college he wants me to be arrested for kidnaping
and pay him child support
so please tell him to get lost and be glad that you did not have children with him
or he did not give you an STD while you guys were together
when I tell you part of my story it is to help you understand the lenght an X can go throw to destroy the other person
so let those member of your family beleive what ever they want to if they were real family he will not dear approach them in the first place
Take care
2007-12-11 05:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does this to hurt you.... Listen, you can't live for what people think about you... There is always going to be someone to talk about you...
You need to keep your head up high and move on and not pay attention to what he tells anyone... If they chose to believe it that is their problem....
2007-12-11 06:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Torres 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell everyone that he has a small, deformed schlong, and thats why you split up. Men hate their manhood insulted above all things.
2007-12-11 05:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his behaviour.
He is just angry with u.Idnore him as much as possible,like he doest even exits on earth.It ll be more troubling then doing anything to him.
2007-12-11 05:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by tanan_nen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To make himself look like "the victim"! Don't worry it will come back to haunt him-just ignore his behavior!
2007-12-11 05:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show your spouse this blog nd he will learn some manners.
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2007-12-11 05:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Giris K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has a sum b**** in him, that's why he's acting like a female.
SO HIGH SCHOOL
2007-12-11 05:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by msk2jazzy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋