I am frightened.
2007-12-11 05:42:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm in the same boat and now it's once every 3 weeks!!!!! Your right what next?
2007-12-11 05:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stephie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She might be thinking the same thing. Keeping the romance alive takes effort. Make it fun again, never take each other for granted and view her as you did at the beginning... per sue her romantically. Examine your schedules, maybe over worked has something to do with it. Someone said the "comfort zone"... That's probably more normal then not. There's nothing wrong with being comfortable with your spouse just remember to make time for each other and always strive to meet each others needs, mentally, emotionally, physically. Don't pressure her, communicate with her. Sometimes there are things in life that bring about stress which can effect your desire to be intimate. Sometimes other things take priority for a time. Just love her. most woman respond well when they feel loved by their man.
2007-12-11 14:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by commoncents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your other half. It is typical for sex to slow down a bit after the initial romance. I think at least once a week should be the plan. But this is something the two of you need to work out. Communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship.
2007-12-11 13:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it has stayed at l or 2 times a week for me and I've been married 23 years. Talk to her and tell her you are needing sex at least once per week and work out a time when you are both not tired and available for each other.
2007-12-11 14:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have hit the comfort zone. Maybe if you require more than once ever 2 wks then initiate it and see if your spouse responds you never know might be waiting for you to initiate.
2007-12-11 13:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing to keep the romance alive?
Do not apply pressure for sex. Make them want you.
It really takes effort to keep a relationship alive and exciting after a while but do not look at it as a chore. Want to do this. Have fun romancing for pete's sake!
2007-12-11 13:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about sex (which everyone assumes you are) then you need to talk to your spouse about how the lack of it is affecting your relationship. Find out why the frequency is going down and do something about it.
2007-12-11 13:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by sassypurplecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a month, once every 2 months...
2007-12-11 13:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Don 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol , man that is funny, but that is marriage LOL, she is not your girl friend any more LOL if you get some 2 x a month then you should be happy LOL. Use the net to Supplement the real thing LOL
2007-12-11 14:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a month. Or once every few months.
2007-12-11 13:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋