Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

Or is it just an infatuation??? I knw this guy since many years and he isnt my friend or anything...but i admire him all the time and i feel that i love him... But im not too sure if its love or just an infatuation...What say y'all???

2007-12-11 03:05:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband works very hard all day and comes back home complain that he is tired,all l want is for him to rest after a hard days job,so l do every other work in the house,including taking care of our 8 MONTHS OLD BABY,instead of him to rest he will take his dog out to urinate,he is never tired to please his animals,he has a dog and a cat living with us,l dont like living with animals,is annoying,but l have to accept them cos my husband love them,so l told my hubby that people who keep animals most of them dont work,why keep them when you dont even have time for yourelf ,cos l am tired,instead of taking the dog out everyday after work ,why not use the time to help me out with one or two things,l dont sleep at night cos baby eats every 4 HOURS and l dont rest during the day cos l dont have the time and baby dont sleep alot,l am busy doing all the house work,he makes me feel stupid,so l asked him to take out the animals,cos l am tired of working like a slave in my house,

2007-12-11 03:05:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it just an infatuation??? I knw this guy since many years and he isnt my friend or anything...but i admire him all the time and i feel that i love him... But im not too sure if its love or just an infatuation...What say y'all???

2007-12-11 03:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are 3 guys in my life right now who I could sleep with whenever. They are good looking, funny, caring men. I love hanging out with them and even staying the night in their beds. However, they don't turn me on like that and I don't know why. Then there is this one guy who is 10 years older than me. I know there is no chance of a relationship and that's perfect for me right now. He isn't as attractive as the others, but he is very aggressive and energetic and I want him badly. I only want him for sex. We've slept together a couple of times and it was amazing. The only problem is that our schedules are so different we're lucky if we see each other once a week. I am so sexually frustrated and the one guy I want sex for isn't around much. What is wrong with me? Why can't I sleep with any of the others? How do I find another guy like the one I've been sleeping with, someone who is available more? Help!

2007-12-11 03:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..i met this guy on hi5 ...he contacted me to say he likes me...so we met up on sunday and watched a movie. he's very nice guy very polite, ifelt quite comfortable around him... he will always make nice comments about me,that im beautiful and such. it felt so right because a 2 weeks ago i was rejected by my best friend because i said i had feelings for him.
......Anyways, now i feel like i don't wanna be with this guy, i've been ignoring his phone calls and i don't know if im just being weird or .....?

please tell me

2007-12-11 03:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by linetta 2 in Singles & Dating

another. Problem is i'm afraid to tell my parents about him, and I've been keeping "us" a secret this whole time.And I stay the night at his house atleast 2 nights a week. I'm afraid they wouldnt approve of the age difference. HELP.It's hard to just let go and not worry about what others think.

2007-12-11 03:03:16 · 19 answers · asked by MissTL 1 in Singles & Dating

I know blondes catch a guys eye faster but is it true that guys just tend to have more respect for brunettes?? what do you think about a Brunette girl with blonde highlights?? lol cus that's what I have...

2007-12-11 02:58:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes i ask myself over and over again why it happened to me.This really sucks because i am desparate to feel normal again.Sometimes my sister says that she is happy that she doen't have a broken heart because she knows that its not fun.

2007-12-11 02:57:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who came up with that idea and when.

2007-12-11 02:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have a 3 month old together. But our relationships is going for ok to worse. I feel that i'm always the one looking for him and trying to be close to him. While he just does his own thing. it hurts me because he constantly disrespects me /but he thinks its funny. and It jus hurting my feelings alot. Do i stay strong an make it work. Its so hard i don't know what to do i don't want my son to grow up with out a dad like i did. So I feel like i'm in a catch 22. I feel stuck.

2007-12-11 02:52:02 · 11 answers · asked by Tica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 02:50:29 · 14 answers · asked by tooyoung4j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 02:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by pinky 5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So many questions are of gloom and despair. I just thought that I would spark the reason for thankfulness with us wives that have that special one in our life that just makes life all the worth of living. I work part time, but on my days off I really enjoy doing my domestice duties and waiting for my lover and kids to get home.....Life couldn't be any better!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-11 02:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by kate 3 in Marriage & Divorce

An idea. Marriage seems rather an aniquated idea these days. What if marriage licenses had to be renewed every X years if the couple was still interested?

If they aren't they go their separate ways without all the divorce legalities. I supposed that oversimplifying things, but it seems like a decent idea for marriages that seemed like a good idea at the time, but don't work out.

2007-12-11 02:39:47 · 22 answers · asked by Joe S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so... How?

2007-12-11 02:36:58 · 31 answers · asked by Stormie Raincloud 4 in Friends

2007-12-11 02:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4 in Singles & Dating

When I first met my boyfriend I knew he was separated and six months later he told me his divorce was finalized. Once this occured our relationship progressed however I found out yesterday that he is still legally married... He told me that he couldn't tell me the truth because he didn't want to lose me and that he had been working on the divorce throughout the duration of our relationship. I feel as though it's time to move on and he should have been honest with me from the begining. Any input is appreciated.

2007-12-11 02:28:25 · 28 answers · asked by Brwneydgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Some men seem to fall at these\womens feet (the whole Chantelle from BIG BROTHER act). One of my friends does it on purpose around men.

I'm not slagging anyone off, just like to hear your views on this subject.

2007-12-11 02:26:07 · 22 answers · asked by Rylie's Mammy ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

He's been having lengthy phone conversations with female coworkers, and has pretty much been hiding it from me. He's never cheated on me (that I know of), but this is the fourth woman I've "caught" him talking to. He says they're just friends, but he talks to her several times a day, sometimes for more than an hour. Am I being paranoid?

2007-12-11 02:25:17 · 39 answers · asked by paperclip 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 02:19:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I used to think no you shouldn't. But after a horrible marriage and a religious upbringing I've changed my mind. If you live together for a year you'll find out the problems with no strings attached. It would stop many bad marriages before they start. Just look at the divorce rate now.

2007-12-11 02:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by stevel226 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 02:14:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello

Does anyone know of Indian names for a boy and girl that is actually Indian, but sounds "Western" or non-Indian?

E.g. like Mona, Rita or Rhea or so ..

2007-12-11 02:11:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife is complaining that I do not make enough time for her. In all honesty I don't see how I can squeeze more time out of my day. I don't fish, hunt, play golf or do anything for myself, EVER. I go to work every day and go to the gym (3 days a week). I still arrive home before my wife, when I go to the gym. The rest of my time is spent with my family in some way. On the weekends, I am either with all or some of them the entire time. I do have a son (from a previous marriage) that I spend time with either in conjunction with and/or seperate from my wife. I have altered the things I used to do (not going to ball games, not spending as much time coaching my son's ball teams, not going to the gym on the weekends, neglecting projects that need to be done at home). I attend EVERY one of her daughter's events (whether they are plays, soccer games, PTA nights at school). But, it is never enough. I choose to do these things because my family is what makes me happy. What can I do?

2007-12-11 02:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by salsax 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There was a time where me and my stpedad actually got along when i was young. but once i hit puberty, he started changing. He started drinking more and became more strict. Most of the time when him and my mom argues, it was over me and the way he was treating me. They would actually get in fist fights when i was younger and then my mom would take me and my little sis to our grandmas house till things blew over. but we always went back to him.

i hate my stepdad because his way of controlling me is by getting in my face and yelling and when i try to say something to him, he will smack me hard across my mouth. I suffer from serious depression and use to cut from the physical and emotional abuse i deal with. I feel my mom has chosen him over me, even though she knows his "parenting techniques"

I think it all started when his brother died in a car wreck and that his other two daughters lived with their mother and never wanted to come see him but every other weekend.

2007-12-11 02:10:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i did this girl a month ago i started dating another girl about 3 weeks ago...the day we started going out the other girl said she was prego and it was mine... but i used a condom and she keeps harrassing my gf about it but this other girl is whore and has been with 2 other guys at least....please help me

2007-12-11 02:09:37 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10years and I have three beautiful kids I lost my mother when I was 20 years so my kids never got to see my mom but there father mother is still living and she is not in my kids life like
i want her to be how do
i tell her how i fill about that

2007-12-11 02:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by p rock 1 in Family

my friend has never married. due to some bitter relationship she has chosen to be single all her life. i used to advise her that she needs a soul mate, may not be now but maybe when she grows much older.
she is sceptical about that. she says she is happy with her life now. she doesnt want to take the risk and end up having a broken heart again. she has a fairly good job and is financially sound. i am worried that in time to come she may regret not marrying. is her decision right?

2007-12-11 01:59:43 · 4 answers · asked by coolgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been caring for the kids since they were little.She asked for them back last year. I also have them on my dhs case i want to remove them but don't know if i should

2007-12-11 01:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by christina w 1 in Family

The groom is arriving the morning of the wedding (he is military and out of state) so will not be at rehersal (church) the night before. We have decided to have a rehersal anyway because the bride wants to make sure all goes smooth. The bridal party mentioned they would like to have a rehersal dinner, but I feel it would be uncomfortable for my daughter (the bride), she already is doing the rehersal without the groom. Also, the grooms parents have not offered to pay anything and my husband and I are about tapped out after paying for the wedding. I was thinking about just ordering pizza at my house for after the rehersal, any ideas on what I should do or could do? thanks all.

2007-12-11 01:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings