There are 3 guys in my life right now who I could sleep with whenever. They are good looking, funny, caring men. I love hanging out with them and even staying the night in their beds. However, they don't turn me on like that and I don't know why. Then there is this one guy who is 10 years older than me. I know there is no chance of a relationship and that's perfect for me right now. He isn't as attractive as the others, but he is very aggressive and energetic and I want him badly. I only want him for sex. We've slept together a couple of times and it was amazing. The only problem is that our schedules are so different we're lucky if we see each other once a week. I am so sexually frustrated and the one guy I want sex for isn't around much. What is wrong with me? Why can't I sleep with any of the others? How do I find another guy like the one I've been sleeping with, someone who is available more? Help!
2007-12-11 03:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe its a mental thing. The one guy has you captured by your fantasy, he got into your head, the others are probably still learning how to get to a girls mind and get them to going. Just please be careful with whom you sleep. Too many guys are not good, just find a guy who can stimulate your mind and make you go crazy and stick with him, adn start dating. Good Luck
2007-12-11 03:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Randy W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers you've gotten so far are from people who apparently have no idea what your going through. My answer won't be of any help only consolation to say I go through the same feelings. I have 3 guys I can sleep with but only 1 that I want to so I hold back even though I want to have sex so bad.But only this 1 guy will do-and he much like your guy is hard to catch up with & there is no future prospect of an upcoming relationship. I don't know why this is & I too wish that I could just get over it....If you want you can email me & we can try to strategize together on ways to bypass this ...Good Luck
2007-12-11 11:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, your answer is in your question. You are turned on by aggressive, energetic men and you have sex with him when you can. That the others are physically attractive and don't turn you on means that you are a deeper person, which is nice, you see further into the person rather than just the physical appearance.. You are a very healthy person, and there is nothing wrong with you. Most men look a lifetime for a woman like you.
2007-12-11 11:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by verrico98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your decision to do what you want with who you want. But I hope you are at least being safe when your changing partners on the regular using protection. If your into older guys that's fine to. I am just not sure why you would not want to stick with one guy that's around if you just want sex. The other things is maybe you actually like the older guy and that's why you don't want to sleep around or maybe you have more respect for yourself then you think you do and that is why you do not want to sleep with anyone else. Sounds like your really the only one that has the answers to your own question.
2007-12-11 11:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by tonice248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U enjoy that guy for his experience and the way she is handling u in bed, ofcourse.
U better find someone who is available and experienced so that u can have good sexual life devoid of frustration.
2007-12-11 11:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get help.
You don't need to be sleeping with all these men.
ITS DANGEROUS.
THAT'S why you can't just have sex with anyone!
There are diseases.
Why do you only want him for sex.
If he's good looking, funny, and caring, why do you just want him for sex?
Do you know how many women out there would kill for a good looking, funny, and caring man rather than their sexually overactive husband?
Maybe you and that woman need to switch places.
It's dangerous out there.
SEX is NOT something to play around with.
SEX is something to take seriously.
OBVIOUSLY, you don't take it seriously.
2007-12-11 11:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would be better off if you stop sleeping with anyone at all and concentrate on finding a man who you love and who loves you, and get married, then you can have all the sex you want.
2007-12-11 11:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shana B 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The person who knows the answer is you.Think hard about the matter.
2007-12-11 12:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would want to.
Nothing.
You don't want to.
Keep looking.
Good luck and find a way to release your "tension" in the meanwhile :)
2007-12-11 11:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It time to get your act together before you caught HIV or AIds and ruling your future.
2007-12-11 12:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋