Im in FL and my son is 10 months old...the judge agreed to let him have my son for 1 week a month... okay well he wont tell me who is watching our son...his mother is the supervisor and I am pretty sure she is at work and if thats the case, who is watching my son...He wont tell me... He supposidly fired his attorney but does anyone know if he can not not tell me...we have joint custody I have physical placement and he has supervised visitation one week a month.... this is the first week my baby is there....please....my attorney hasn't responded to me so I dont know what to do....
2007-12-11 05:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, my ex and my son are in Georgia...
2007-12-11 05:02:30 · update #1
I keep calling him, i am crying...i this is bull crap !!
2007-12-11 05:06:25 · update #2
He wont answer my calls or my text messages...
His mother wont either.
2007-12-11 05:07:58 · update #3
Me and the children ended up in a domestic violence shelter... he is an angry person, i dont trust him with my son !!
2007-12-11 05:09:40 · update #4
The grandmother wont answer my calls either !!!
2007-12-11 05:19:13 · update #5
I would contact local law enforcement and have them stop by to check the welfare of the child to start with and I would be on the first fligtht there also. I am assuming he is on supervised visitation for good reason, and you need to put your foot down NOW!! I would be sick if my 18 month old were in that situation. The judge in Mo won't let him take my son anywhere outside of the state and he lives in Kentucky now so I guess I am very lucky. Go get your baby and take this jerk back to court, if you look at your divorce/custody agreement it probably has guidelines he has to follow and answering the phone is most likely one of them, maybe he is in contempt. If so take him back to court and take all his visitation away!
2007-12-11 05:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to know who is caring for your child when you aren't there; in fact I would imagine its your responsibility. I wouldn't take this lightly at all. Get a new lawyer, one who won't return your calls or have a staff member do so isn't worth the money you fork over to retain them. This is a matter of a life, a life you would like to watch grow.
I don't know what I would do if I were in your shoes, or any other parent who wants to be with their child but has to share them (court ordered) with a parent you don't trust. My first instinct is to say I'd take my child and never be seen again...but that is pretty far fetched, if not impossible. My heart goes out to all of you caring parents who have to share your children with irresponsible or shady parents.
2007-12-11 05:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you do have a right to know who is watching your child. Is there a reason not to trust his judgment? If there is no reason to doubt him, if he is a good father, then let it go. I have 50/50 custody of my daughter with my ex, and while he doesn't do things that I always agree with, I know he loves her as much as I do and I have to trust that he will try to do his very best by her. It has worked wonders here, all is peaceful and our child is happy and well adjusted. Letting go and trusting is very hard, however as a silent observer, I realized my control and input isn't as important as I once thought it was. I wish you the best.
2007-12-11 05:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is 10 days previous. there is not any way that i could enable somebody save my son in one day that quickly. I hate to assert it yet your percentexhibits you taking your own image without your shirt on and your call has sixty 9 further to the top of it. you do not sound like a great dad from what i will see. i don't supply a crap of i'm getting a million thumb downs for this yet i think of you deserve what you have become. in case you're somewhat helping the mummy of your new child then optimistically she will have the skill to paintings with you and that i'm sorry. in any different case do not take her to court docket because of the fact she is holding her new child (which with the help of how is what she is doing with the help of not letting you're taking a new child for in one day visits).
2016-10-02 08:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work with the grandmother and be adult and control your emotions (no matter how hard it is). Tell her you just want to know who is watching her grandchild to ensure he is safe. Regardless of the craziness between you and her son -- it best for everyone to work together and have a calm environment for the baby. If she is the supervisor of care then she should be there with that baby at all times.
2007-12-11 05:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really worried u have all right to know whos watching ur son. I think you should drive to GA and find out what the hell is going on and petation to the court that he is unfit parent and u have been putting in dark on whos taking caring of the your child.
2007-12-11 05:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, yes it is, call your mother in law and find out, I am surprised that she was appointed, usually its someone not in the family. If you have papers with his attorney, call and see if he is still on retainer. You must know his were abouts at all times, including a working phone number. My heart goes out to you. You can call the police and have a WELL Check done, the police go to the address you have and if not there, they start asking questions until they get the answers they want. Good Luck. CALL THE POLICE NOW. and get them to go out there and call your mother in law.
2007-12-11 05:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to know where your child is at all times!! I insist you demand your lawyer to call or you need to go to his/her office and wait till they see you! Is your ex a good person? Is he abusive? does your ex live near by? these are all important questions- good luck. i hope all goes well with you and your son.
2007-12-11 05:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document all of this and all your attempts to find out and their failures to inform you.
http://www.fcnetwork.org/library/p3ChildSupport.pdf
Look at this web site...print it off and glean from the information that can help you. It will show your rights. Don't be concerned with who it is for just the good information. I like it cause of it's lay out and simple to understand.
2007-12-11 05:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to know who is watching your son.
2007-12-11 05:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋