i met a boy 2 days ago in internet. he lied much about him. today we were arguing and in one situation he called me '******'. should i revenge on him and how? or i should forget it?
i wanna say that as a muslim girl that word is just intolerable and insultingfor me.
2007-12-11 04:49:03 · 23 answers · asked by Mim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some one answered that as a muslim girl it is insulting to my religion to find a guy in internet. ya its right but i wanna say her that he added me first. not only that i met him in my very childhood. coz he is one of my close frnd's cousin.
2007-12-11 14:44:14 · update #1
Ignore him...Move on.......!!!
2007-12-11 04:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by remoserjr107 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me first say that you shouldn't really trust everyone you meet on the internet..I should know, I was engaged to someone I met on the internet and he lied to me about a lot of things...and had a HUGE personality change. Needless to say, I didn't marry him. I would suggest that you forget about it...It can be hard to do knowing he insulted you but it probably would be for the best...he might do somthing in return if you try to get revenge.
2007-12-11 04:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whata did you expect? The interenet is not the place to find dates. Although some do work out, for the most part they don't. There is almost no such thing as honesty on the computer. Most of the time they don't expect to ever meet, so they make up whatever they want, because the chances of getting away with it are great.
2007-12-11 04:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A psychologist Doctor thought me some thing so valuable, that it changed my life for good. He told me an insult or bad word, coming out of some one mouth, it's only a sound wave, in the air, and it has absolutely no value and no weight on it ??!! Until we give it weight and value, by reacting to it IE getting angry??
Please think about that, it's as good as gold?!
Mokhless Shomaa !
Best Regards.
2007-12-11 05:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by iceman 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Names only have a bearing on our lives if we fit the name we are being called. You sound like a very intelligent person and you of all people should know that people call ugly names to get attention or a reaction. Don't give him the pleasure of gaining your attention or having that power to push your buttons. Forget about him and move on. He sounds very childish and beneath you.
2007-12-11 04:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say forget it and not talk to him again. Taking time for revenge isn't worth it in the long run because it will just keep them in your life all the longer. Forgive and move on, negative people aren't worth the time and energy
2007-12-11 04:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by terzix_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea revenge might be fun but it isn't gonna change what already happened. You met him online which means you don't ever have to see him again. I'd personally just drop it and move on. There are way to many fish in the sea to just be dwelling on one.
2007-12-11 04:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you arguing face to face? Leave it alone. He sounds very immature. Name calling is just another way he is trying to get your attention, albeit, in a negative way. If you give him the satisfaction, he will continue to seek attention from you in the same way.
Walk away, stay away. Tell him to do the same. Also, make sure someone close to you knows about this person just in case you need to report him.
2007-12-11 04:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by drd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Muslim girl... finding guys on the internet... that is insulting to the religion of yours...isn't it? intolerable??!?
2007-12-11 04:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by ddroxana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll let the guy go and forget i once know him .. is for you that word is so insulting what you should argue something you already thing is wrong.
if he is doing that know you could by that imagine what he is going to do after ...
2007-12-11 04:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Naheidelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet guys on the internet, you dont want a guy who needs to find a girl over the internet.
2007-12-11 04:52:24 · answer #11 · answered by mor e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋