Just wondering... when do u think is the best time in a relashionship to tell someone something about bad about you that might hurt them...Should u be honest from the start, or should you wait to see what type of person they are before you tell them???
By something bad it's something that not everyone would think its bad, it's just something that depends on the other person understanding it and still wanting to be with u....
i hope this makes sense.... but just wondering... i know trust is important and honesty... but then when do u start to open up all the deep secrets and stuff. cos if u do it too early ... u might scare a person off.. but if u leave it too late,,, its a lie then...
2007-12-11 04:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by sbalroarhe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same boat i dont think its a lie! u want them to like you first and then at least when they hear the bad thing they can get passed it because of how much they like you. if u tell them to soon the might just leave things if they dont think its 2 serious between yee. i would wait u will know when its right to tell them.
2007-12-11 04:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow some more time to be with her to understand her mind and her psychology.After having a friendship close enough with a girl for about 4 to 6 months , you will understand whether your relationship is moving along the right way .....and, then you can explain to her what exactly you have been trying to tell her.Just wait for the time being.
2007-12-11 12:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are varying degrees of "bad". Remember, somethings are better off left unsaid. Wait for the right time, whenever that may be, and if you think your significant other can handle it, go ahead and clear your mind. Otherwise, bury the secret and forget about it.
2007-12-11 12:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brewspy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty from day 1 is the only way to go. I would not want anything else i hate secrets and lies.
2007-12-11 12:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by tonice248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things are better left unsaid, but if it starts to put a damper on your relationship, by all means, sit your SO down and tell them.
2007-12-11 12:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by plentyofmoxie84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should keep it to yourself until the relationship is close to, "Will you marry me?" Then, if you feel that whatever this bad thing is would be important to your future together, bring it up then.
2007-12-11 12:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe onli u wud noe when's d best time to open up, beta to be truthful right fr d start then to haf d other party find out later on...
best of luck
2007-12-11 12:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by hata_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get them out asap it will only get harder.
2007-12-11 12:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by Denis B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you are with that person..... IN PERSON!
2007-12-11 13:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋