how can u make yourself a better person than before?

Question

well i did alot off of bad things in my life but i realize how bad that was so now im trying to change so that people can see the good in me not the bad .

Answer 1

that good for u but if u want to change not for people is for u i think u will change but u should help ur self

Answer 2

You just keep working at it! The very fact that you realize you did some wrong things and want to change is already a major step in the right direction. Now (dare I say it?) you should turn to God for help. Ask him to strengthen you to do the right thing, and keep going back to him when you slip. One way in which that help may come is through a support group for people with whatever particular problems you've had. A clergyman or a counselor may be able to direct you to one.

Hang in there and fight the good fight!

Answer 3

heya hun, sounds like me there!!!!I did sum seriously messed up things and didnt realise what i was doing at the time!!i lost all my mates nd nearly my fiance!!I decided i had to change, like you've realised.i made a list of all the bad things i did, nd burnt it!pretended that it had just completely left me nd i didnt ave to think about it ever again!obviously i still had all the consequences to take care of, but thats sorting itself out!you need to be positive, look towards the future and start seein urself doing much better things!positive energy will bring positive things your way!trust me!iv been thru hell and back(in my own way..?)but iv come out fine, and im 100%sure u will 2 hun!think of things that u can do 2 make u a better person..im not saying change ur personality....NEVA do that 4 any1!!!good luck nd hope u feel better bout it all soon xx

Answer 4

Yeah well my uncle is a murderer and hes going through the exact same as you. Hes a completley changed man because his gf has had his baby and he takes responsibility for it and hes amazing with his baby, Jackson is the babys name. And ever since Jackson came into his life hes made everyone proud of him and thats what he wanted. So maybe you should take responsibility of **** that goes on and be stronger than you was before x

Answer 5

Everyone feels this way, in some point of their life. usually when they become older and start to realize how your life is going. the best way to change is to know right from wrong and live by it. if you believe in God, go to church, spend time with the right kind of people. do not curse or lie. treat everyone the way you would like for them to treat you. just do everything that you believe to be right. that is about all, anyone can do.

Answer 6

Acknowledge the person that you were and all of the things that you did. And really make the effort to change---it won't happen over night. But if you make the effort and people see that, you should have their support and that will make this new path easier for you. No one can really do it alone.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 7

people always did some mistakes and we need not to dwell more of our time contemplating on the wrongdoings that we did. We just have to accept the fact that we committ some foolish things and learn to move on.being a better person starts by believing in yourself that you are one then your actions will follow then.
start doing this by talking to yourself in front of the mirror and saying that you are a better person on a daily basis then start believing on what you are confessing..

Answer 8

Obviously by learning from your mistakes. Also give back to the community, volunteer or join a non-profit organization. Habit for Humanity, local food back, etc.

Answer 9

Do the opposite of the bad things you did and you will be fine.

Answer 10

Well, I wish I knew the answer to this, or I wouldn't be in the situation I'm in. At least you know you made mistakes and are willing to correct them.