Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

im 18..yes i know too young to be worring about this stuff but it seems as though everyone around me is able to hang on to their specail someone for at least a year at a time..then theres me who can barely make it to the 7 month mark. i alwasy have these guys that are like "ur a sweet girl ur beautiful ur nice i feel like i can tell u anything" but then it never works out for one reason or another. in the last 2 months iv had 2 guys in my life one who was my "boyfriend" for 2 weeks and he "had no time for a relationship" and another guy who i had been seeing for a while who "doesnt want a relationship right now"....iv had it with men i cant stand them anymore i cant stand to have my heart broken again,,,yet i hate being alone. sorry for the ranting

2007-12-01 18:19:58 · 1 answers · asked by someone111111 2 in Singles & Dating

What lingerie would you wear for you man? Stockings, garters, or pantyhose.

2007-12-01 18:18:27 · 21 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i got into an argument yesturday. He said he was sorry i brought up divorce and he gave me a kiss and said that is the best thing. in the morning he gave me a kiss. We cooked breakfast together and raked the leafs outside he hugged me and said he was my husband and he wasnt going to be my friend he would stay my husband, so he went to work i didnt call like always and he didnt call neither at about 30 min after he got out i called and he was at a friends house i got mad and he said well i thought were done. hes the one hugging me and telling me he loves me so why does he not come home? why does he not answer his phone? am confused hes called me a witch, hes called me a ***** in front of my kids, and other curse words, hes hit me 3 times before I really want to try but it hurts not to feel like our marriage is forever, and it hurts when he dosent come home he goes drinks w/friends and i never go out w/ out our kids.

2007-12-01 18:14:54 · 20 answers · asked by mari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-spouse and I were married for 13 years. We are now divorced. He was verbally, physically and emotionally abusive to me and my two sons. He does not pay child support or hardly ever contact his children. We still run in the same social circle. How do I attend parties and other events that he is at without a confrontation. I honestly don't know how to deal with him or his new girlfriend. They both try to pick fights with me and I try to ignore them, but it is hard.

2007-12-01 18:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by luvmybenz2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I have been having a hard time with my husband...If you read any of my past entries, I have had problems with him abusing cold pills and alcohol and smoking weed while in the Army. He left for NCO school so I took this opportunity to fly home. Since I have been home with my family things are so much smoother, I have help with the baby, and for the moment my stress level has lowered. I have to go back in a week and it is seriously going to kill me because I am going back to loneliness. I'm not the type of girl that feels that she cant survive without my family, so dont get the wrong idea. Its just that even though my husband tells me that he will do better, I am just tired of dealing with all of it. When I go back home, how do I cope with the stress? Honestly I dont wanna go back but I guess have to because...uh..he's my husband. I'm just so confused..someone tell me what to do.

2007-12-01 18:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you emotionally withdraw? Do you think it's no big deal? Do you give them the silent treatment? Do you discuss? Argue?

2007-12-01 18:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a married SAHM. My husband is lying to me about porn. I've found it on our computer before, and was angry because he's spending our money on it and hiding it. If he'd just be open about it, and even ask me to watch WITH him once in a while, I'd be totally cool with it. I've made that very clear to him in the past. Just be honest, and dont lie to me about spending our money on it. But when I went into our internet history to find a site that I had visited before, there were a TON of visits to a porn site that day, and the day before. One he SAID he had cancelled the subscription for. I'm home all day. The only time I can think of that he's doing this is when I'm in the bath. I'm pregnant, and I'll curl up in the tub for a couple hours and read a book. To make matters worse, he will TURN DOWN SEX when *I* want it, and only have it with me when HE wants. WTF? He could have me whenever he wants, but instead he's wasting his sexual energy on porn, and denying me sex when I

2007-12-01 18:10:53 · 33 answers · asked by lilmamamonique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I need to find a way to plan an inexpensive honeymoon. I think we could come up with around $2000 for the trip; we would like it to last at least a six or seven nights. I was secretly hoping my parents would be willing to give us some of their frequent flyer miles and hotel points as a wedding gift (that's what they gave me as a college graduation gift), but it turns out they are not planning to do that. We live in California but would prefer to travel somewhere farther away for our honeymoon. (I have done a fair amount of international travel, so having a local honeymoon seems a bit anticlimactic.)

I don't make a lot of money (I'm a teacher!), but I would love to go to either the Caribbean, the Mediterranean, Australia, New Zealand, or Hawaii. Please help me with suggestions of hotels, airlines, countries with a good exchange rate, etc. I have been looking online at resorts and have become discouraged -- everything seems to cost $3000 or more!

Thanks!

2007-12-01 18:10:26 · 20 answers · asked by Emmy Jo (13 weeks with #2) 7 in Weddings

2007-12-01 18:09:19 · 1 answers · asked by Schyler S 1 in Singles & Dating

would you ever remarry? I know I wouldn't unless the person had a lot to offer, didn't drink, smoke or do drugs, and basically treated me like a Godess.

2007-12-01 18:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if my first cousin has a baby, is the baby my nephew or my second cousin. i think his my nephew but my freind says his my second cousin. whos right

2007-12-01 18:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by huh?? 3 in Family

Have you ever wanted to date someone soo badly but couldn't because they were dealing with too much at once? I am facing that now with a guy that I really like. He is a truck driver with 2 kids by 2 different women. His schedule leaves little if any time for me. I've tried being his friend but I can't because I want more. The only options I feel are left are a) deal with it or b)walk away now and save on future heartache. I am torn between the two, what would you do?

2007-12-01 18:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Survivor 6 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend are high school age and he had been going out with a girl for 2 years and it was extremely serious. they were inseparable until all of a sudden she broke his heart. any advice?

2007-12-01 18:03:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mom passed away about a year ago. now i saw my aunt. withanother man in a place she ought to have never been at. going into a motel room with this other man. she.s been married for.26. years to my aunts man he treats her very good and is a minister as well should i let him know. the reason why i am asking. the clerck at that place know.s my uncle . and by law my uncle will divorce her and sue both. him and her. i didnt know that a law like this was around for sueing a person but a lawer told me yes it was but my main question should i tell him or knowing this other guy he will . thank you all

2007-12-01 18:01:53 · 18 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in the beginning it is full of lust and after a year it seems to vaporate

2007-12-01 18:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by trustluvlove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been distracted lately. Today he told me why. Two months ago he went out with colleagues, drank too much and they visited a brothel. Colleagues left, he didn't. Today he came clean with me and told me he had sex with a prostitute that night. They used a condom but it came off during sex. He told me because he has contracted an STD. Now I must take antibiotics to clear up anything that he may have passed onto me. He's very sorry for what happened and very upset. But he also told me if he hadn't of contracted this STD he wouldn't have told me of the affair. What do I do? Do I forgive? Do I kick him out? I love this man with all my heart and soul. I am just so confused......

2007-12-01 17:57:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which one comes first?

2007-12-01 17:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP
i have a major crush on this guy, and his friends all say thet he likes me......... i want to go further with him, but my friends dont want me to
They basically think he is a idiot who only wants attention, but they dont know him like i do... he is really sweet and funny
WHAT TO DO!!

2007-12-01 17:55:06 · 13 answers · asked by the girl the world forgot 2 in Singles & Dating

hey..i just want to know that a guy in my class likes me or not..
he has been looking me frm many weeks(hes a new student..n i like him)even though i am also new student
well can yu tell me how i can make him like me..??

2007-12-01 17:54:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz help

2007-12-01 17:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 17:51:00 · 15 answers · asked by momotzange5 4 in Friends

friends please think in this question with your heart & mind thanks

2007-12-01 17:48:38 · 31 answers · asked by sulieman 4 in Singles & Dating

evenif she can ay them with out him knowing?

2007-12-01 17:47:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-01 17:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can a man forget and forgive his wife and guy she was seeing and not hold a gruge over what has happened after all she was older. and married . . can her husband forgive him and forget or just divorce her. and not hold the man at fault she was in her.40.s and i was just a . 19. year old at that time . she was doing all the come on to me . can this happen with him on what happened

2007-12-01 17:40:55 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have not been sexually active at all for 5 years.
My spouse told me that they resented most of the last sex we had. 15 years ago.
We have had sex 10 times a year 15 years ago and that tapered off to less then once a year, and stopped all together when I got orders to Iraq.

I can’t leave. While I was in Iraq Pat suffered a stroke and is paralyzed on one side. I can not abandon a crippled spouse. If I should find a sexual partner am I obligated to refuse?

I am a very lonely and want someone to hold me.

2007-12-01 17:36:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

can someone help me figure out why im so straight up gangstar and ballin? why does everyone like me so much???

2007-12-01 17:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-01 17:35:03 · 49 answers · asked by prince 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not attending this wedding, I know the guy from work, but never met his son. I don't want to be rude but I haven't a clue what I am expected to do. Hate to offend him but if I'm obligated to buy gifts for everyone's celebrations I'd go broke. I've got a big family and a limited budget..

2007-12-01 17:35:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He's a musician and I trust him a lot... But I just don't trust other people. I know I'll be thinking about those rediculous girls throwing themselves at him and it REALLY irritates me... And the other thing is that I'll know I'll miss the hell out of him! He's only doing shows right now, but his band's about to get signed to a record label. I'm so worried that this will make our relationship fall apart since we will barely see each other =[

How do I cope with this?? How have you other women coped with this same type of situation? I know it's his dream and I fully support it, but I don't want to see our relationship go through a black hole...

2007-12-01 17:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by laurynhorror 1 in Marriage & Divorce