Have you ever wanted to date someone soo badly but couldn't because they were dealing with too much at once? I am facing that now with a guy that I really like. He is a truck driver with 2 kids by 2 different women. His schedule leaves little if any time for me. I've tried being his friend but I can't because I want more. The only options I feel are left are a) deal with it or b)walk away now and save on future heartache. I am torn between the two, what would you do?
2007-12-01 18:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Survivor 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh.... you're right. it's just too much... sometimes, you have to use your mind and not your heart.. how exactly do u see ur future with this guy? you, carrying his 2 kids from other women? cmon! look, you deserve better okay? besides, this "loving" feeling usually last 6 to a year. after that, your on your own..... just think about it, okay? if he wasn't able to keep his promises to those two girls, how sure are you that he would keep his promises to you???
2007-12-01 18:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by aeijae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If being a friend is out of the question, what have you got to lose? If it works, great! If it fails, what happens? The exact same thing you were contemplating letting happen anyways.
2007-12-02 02:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by John O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away.... need to find a man who is not broken.
Besides if he has all of that going on, when are you going to have time with him?
2007-12-02 02:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetenuf22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your intuition and move on.
2007-12-02 02:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel maybe your exactly what he needs right now.
2007-12-02 02:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by sO*happy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋