why cant i make any relationship work?

Question

im 18..yes i know too young to be worring about this stuff but it seems as though everyone around me is able to hang on to their specail someone for at least a year at a time..then theres me who can barely make it to the 7 month mark. i alwasy have these guys that are like "ur a sweet girl ur beautiful ur nice i feel like i can tell u anything" but then it never works out for one reason or another. in the last 2 months iv had 2 guys in my life one who was my "boyfriend" for 2 weeks and he "had no time for a relationship" and another guy who i had been seeing for a while who "doesnt want a relationship right now"....iv had it with men i cant stand them anymore i cant stand to have my heart broken again,,,yet i hate being alone. sorry for the ranting

Answer 1

Might have to accept the fact that you can't play games well as other people. Hi! I'm 26 years old, live in south-east oklahoma, lived in OKC for a LONG time, and the fact you NEED to accept is that not everyone is equaly purposeful. Notice how I didn't say smart, or compassinate. The point is that not everyone is going to share your same purpose in life, which is EXTREMELY important in relationships. Romantic love is bull-crap sorry hunnie, you need to settle on TRUE LOVE! Which isn't about making a relationship perfect, its about accepting that people are not perfect, understanding that, and THEN making the relationship work. Which if done right is romantic. But also realize alot of people are pretty..... slow thinking? Easily get into flows? Like to get one-track minded? People are ignorant there I said it. If everyone and their mom was having good, deep, geniune relationship would we have the social problems we have with drugs, pragnacy, divorces, crimes? Really think about that one! That aside, realize that you like me, their isn't that many people that count. I'm not getting big-headed here ether, its that SAD truth, there isn't that many people of good quaility, so don't look at is as your the one wrong. Its the society. If that didn't help call this number 1-312-588-3107, funny stuff, get your mind off it for a little while atleast......