He's a musician and I trust him a lot... But I just don't trust other people. I know I'll be thinking about those rediculous girls throwing themselves at him and it REALLY irritates me... And the other thing is that I'll know I'll miss the hell out of him! He's only doing shows right now, but his band's about to get signed to a record label. I'm so worried that this will make our relationship fall apart since we will barely see each other =[
How do I cope with this?? How have you other women coped with this same type of situation? I know it's his dream and I fully support it, but I don't want to see our relationship go through a black hole...
2007-12-01 17:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by laurynhorror 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I definitely want to go with him but he says no band member wants his girlfriend going on tour and that it's too expensive
2007-12-01 17:43:57 · update #1
without trust there is nothing. if your gonna trust him you have to trust that he'll do the right thing. when me and my husband started dating we lived 30 minuets away from each other and he was starting school. we only saw each other for 5 min on friday and saturday nights at work ( we worked at the same place) this went on for 6 months we finally got engaged 6 months later and have been together now for 15 years. we only dated 9 months before we got married. it's hard but you'll make it. there were times i didn't think i'd make it it felt like an eternity before we could spend time together but i knew that his school was important cause i knew that i wanted to marry him and this would help our family. by the way i asked him to marry me. you go after want you want and you let NO one come between you and him sweetie. good luck
2007-12-01 19:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by livedinthe80s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend the type you experience. i used to be with a man or woman who replaced into on his thank you to being in a band and that i fearful regarding a similar precise element. yet what does not gte me is WHY you won't manage to pass with him. those 2 excuses are very lame and make no experience. you're his FIANCE and you will desire to be waiting to come lower back with him....If he fairly cared and enjoyed you he does not suggestions you being around and pay a splash greater for you. It sounds incredibly suspicious to me why you at the instant are not allowed to come lower back. i comprehend how adult men in bands are....drugs, intercourse and Rock 'N Roll is what they prefer. maximum adult men in bands are not easy, hun. i'm hoping you by some potential learn how to handle this. remember, in case you won't manage to have have confidence for somebody, there is not any genuine way you are able to stay with them.
2016-09-30 10:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew where you were getting into when you decided to be with him and eventually marry him. Either get used to or leave because you cannot make him give up his dreams.
But if you love each other so much, you should trust him.
2007-12-01 17:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's pursuing this career, you will have to get used to it. Why don't you go along with him - but once your married with children in school, that will be hard to do unless you homeschool them on the road.
Joy to you!
2007-12-01 17:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you should do is be clingy. Talk to him about your fears and never let anything destroy what you have.
2007-12-01 17:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Travel along with him if you can.
2007-12-01 17:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he sleeps with othere women sleep with other men.
2007-12-01 17:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should go with him...
2007-12-01 17:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by BTB{06.22.09} 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋