Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because i felt that we didn't have that connection anymore. I didn't feel special about him, he was just like any of my guy friends. But now whenever i see him i really really want to hug him, hold his hand, or make out with him. Is it normal to have such a strong physical attraction? Because when i think about it sometimes i get confused n think that maybe i do still like him. Help please?

2007-12-01 20:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men rape womn? im just wondering, its so disguisting and gross. why dnt they just get themself a stripper or sumthing instead of putting a women in all tht pain, then be on the run frm the police. the reason im really pissed about it know is because my best friend takes in foster children and i really like one of them, shes a 4 year old gurl and she is ADORABLE. i just feel so bad for her she wants her mom but she has to stay with my friend, she really likes it but a child needs her mother. and i just found out today that her father raped her a while ago, when she was about 3 and a half. and she always has nightmares about it when she sleeps and i just feel SO bad for her. i mean why didnt the dad just go have sex with the mom if he wanted it so bad instead of hurting his little gurl??

2007-12-01 20:03:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl who you have dated for 2 years (known for 7) and loved dearly and she loved you moved away for 6 months and after 3 weeks of being away breaks up with you and pursues another man and after 8 weeks realises he is a jerk and wants to come back to you saying she made a hughe mistake and does love you. Do you think she is genuine??? Or do you think she is just now scared because she got mistreated and only sees you as a back up?

Also I decided to take her back but she seems to being acting at a distant with me, we dont say I love you anymore because she wants to take things slow again (yet she says she does love me)

What is going on? Also she moved to the usa for college for 6 months so it has been a huge adventure for her so far and likely to continue.

2007-12-01 19:59:08 · 24 answers · asked by Blake E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't get it. What's their purpose. I know you can wed with out them. But where did this tradition start?

2007-12-01 19:56:28 · 4 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

I have a grandfather who Ive never met but I feel very very very close to him..He passed away when I was around 3 months old..I'm 22 years old now,and I'm about to get married,and I was wondering if anyone knew any songs that could relate to either a mother losing a father or a granddaughter loving her grandfather that I could play at my wedding,either from me to him,or my mother to my grandfather...I feel very strong about find a perfect song..anyone having any suggestions? Thanks and God Bless.

2007-12-01 19:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

right i think ive just got out of a relationship that ive been in since i was 15/16 with a guy i still adore, he is being silly at the moment, wanting a break and stuff!! anyways
over 4 years i have gotten quite dependant on him, and now im pretty much lost i dont know what to do with myself, i dont really have many close friends and im quite shy (however i am working on this cos i compete in loads of beauty pagents!!)
nywys what do u suggest i do, im not into random sex (in fear of aids n stds n other nasties) but i wanna meet new people go out more and find some best mates any ideas?
i also work at a record store once a week so im hoping i will get a lot of guys hitting on me over the next feew weeks with xmas!( great confidance booster)
please help a shy but confidant, no friends girl
thanks

2007-12-01 19:40:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first, I'm a non-smoker, he smokes constantly... like 6 cigarettes every 3 hours. Usually 2 at a time (one after another), another thing that drives me up the wall, is that he thinks it's okay to cuss around his older kid who is 10 years old... he likes to drink beer (like 6-7 at a time) at this does not affect him. I like his kids, they are great, he has a 3 yr old son too... At least he does his smoking outside. He talks constantly, and when I listen, he thinks I"m not listening and questions me about what he just said. He is living in an apt with his two boys, and I have offered to have them stay at my house on many occassions just to get him out of his tiny 1 bedroom apt with his kids. I spent the whole day over at his place today with his 2 kids, and he said "I know you are itching to get out of here"... During that time, I played ball with his 3 year old boy, and watched his older son play a video game on his X-box. He talked for over an hour to his friend on the phone...

2007-12-01 19:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer J 1 in Singles & Dating

i was at the mall with my girlfriend and there was this family they had 2 daughters about the same age and the husband was slappin the wife around when she ordered the wrong burger for him and alot of ppl were watching even the dam security gaurd and i told the guy leave his wife alone n we started argueing and he was gonna slap her again n i just slapped him as hard as i could and he started punchin me and he hit me but i got him on the floor first and the cops came and took him away and the wife called her mom n picked her up and my girlfriend kept saying im wrong i shud have done nothin but i cudnt since i saw my mom get slapped around since i was little from my dad

2007-12-01 19:32:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 19:31:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend of mine. and we were very good friends at first. then i felt like i have something for him and i told him so. He said that if it doesnt work out in the long run, we both will be hurt, so we better stay as friends. its been almost an year now and i still do love him alot.
but i feel like i have given him too much attention and now he's not pretty much interested in me. its like i have lost him. i always initiate contact and he talks to me ok, but unenthusiastically. I dont want to lose him but i think i am, little by little. Is it bad to show a guy that you care?? Or is it good never to pay attention to any guy, giving a meaning that you are not easy to get?? If so then, then wheres the line between love and flirting??

2007-12-01 19:30:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i know likes me, and he wants to go out with me. but the thing is, he LOVES my best friend who wont go out with him. should i go out with someone who is in love with someone else? i dont know what to do.

2007-12-01 19:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after 5 month she left me cause of she was still loving her ex boy friend,,,,,and so she was too confuse cause im also too much loving.....she is living a far city and im too,,,i had go to her place so many times for her comeback in my life..but she didn't came once and refuse me atleast for fysicaly any relation,,,till now i havnt any relation with any body and staying alone here with dipration.....also havn't done any legal action against her.....she mailed me that now she is a c.a. by profession .... once again i m calling to comeback but she never mailed me again....she has my phone no...but i havn't her and she never called me?i don't know where she is living now......since 4 year im living alone and so sad......pls suggest me?

2007-12-01 19:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by dil deke d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 19:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

please say your suggestions,so that i can avoid it.

2007-12-01 19:18:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met my boyfriend at a friends party and we really clicked. a month later we were going out.

its been about 2 months since we've been going out so its 3 months since i first met him.

and he treats me like a princess, well a goddess as he calls me. his always telling me how lucky he is and how perfect i am. he loves to hold me and when we touch each other its magical.

well we've been talking about it and i think were ready to 'make-love' as he loves to call it. but my friend thinks were moving to fast.


how do i know when we're ready?

2007-12-01 19:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think it is, as you have no idea how that person looks. But my hubby says it is and he has done it. I have tried, but can't see it in my mind. Has anyone else done this?

2007-12-01 19:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

over twenty three years. I used to date this guy and his brother just passed away this past week. and i was wanting to send him a sympothy card cause his brother was a really great person. do you thinks it's appropriate or not. we are both married and i don't want to step over any boundries. please help

2007-12-01 19:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by livedinthe80s 5 in Family

I am making my own invitations and I am about to start on the inserts. Here is a picture of my DIY invites
http://pic20.picturetrail.com/VOL82/6411734/12422260/291144545.jpg

My question is this.... Do most people include an envelope for the RSVP card? If so, do you include the stamp?
I was thinking that I am going to put my wedding website address on the RSVP card for those who may want to RSVP that way... I don't want to waste stamps if most will probably just respond that way.

2007-12-01 19:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by lilbobo1980 2 in Weddings

..W/SINGLE guys I barely know. 1st time he did this he knew I was upset & he came home early & told me he never wanted to go anywhere w/o me. A wk later, he changed his mind & said that was how he felt at the time. Sometimes he doesn't come home at all from work/school. One time he didn't come home until 11AM the next day. I tell him how much it hurts, but all he says is "It's not my fault you have shitty friends", implying that they don't ask me out. Last night he left we were angry & he came back an hr later & apologized & said he was proud I was his wife then left again. I was ok w/that. Tonight he left w/o a word. He got dressed saw I was upset & left anyway. He's about 20 minutes away from many strip-clubs & I don't like them when we go & I fear he goes w/friends. He likes to brag how he can get any girl so that REALLY worries me. Is there some way I can make him not WANT to go places w/o me? Sometimes w/o me is fine but this is too much.

2007-12-01 19:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by stackhouse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which i think always bad then is it the case of eve teasing? is it compulsory to do. girls and ladies what u think if hubby do all these acts with wife is it not the case of eve teasing?
am a male.
only ladies answer plsssss.

2007-12-01 18:54:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This one girl is extrmly pretty and she gets every singel guy she wants .....and shes one of my best friends..

2007-12-01 18:52:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well...i have problem regarding relationship between me and parents. i always recieve advices and suggestions from parents all the time but sometimes i feel they aren't necessary. i wanna live my life my way and not by compromising. i want to enjoy life. i sometimes get frustrated when my parents interfere in my courses of action.

plz....help...

2007-12-01 18:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It will be my first one alone

2007-12-01 18:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by Julie 5 in Family

ok is it right to date older women when they r 3 years older then you

2007-12-01 18:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by corey_quinlan 1 in Singles & Dating

1.)How old were you when you started your first serious relationship?

2.)Who was your first crush? How old were you?

3.)How old were you when you had your first girlfriend or boyfriend (puppy love)? What was the outcome of that?

4.)Did you ever have an admirer?

2007-12-01 18:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by ♥♥Sweet Mickey♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 18:30:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say I'm 16, and drunk, and just had sex with a girl http://www.flickr.com/photos/9961479@N03/2080224874/ and didn't use a condom. Like 15 minutes ago... what would I do?

2007-12-01 18:28:11 · 1 answers · asked by TC 3 in Singles & Dating

can you

2007-12-01 18:26:12 · 21 answers · asked by Sky D 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been fussin over a guy i knew for 4 years and then i moved and never really saw or spook to him until i saw him maybe 2 years ago and still didn't ask for a contact number,. then i sent his grandparents two seperate letters asking if they could give him my email(i lived next door to his grandparents, not him). not a word from them in maybe a year. now my parents are saying that i should call them personally asking if i could have his number. should i? or should i just leave him alone. i don't want to seem annoying.

2007-12-01 18:25:56 · 8 answers · asked by alexandria. 1 in Singles & Dating

About 2 & a half years ago I met a guy.. we instantly had a connection and fell in love....i seriously didnt think anything would ever be able to come between us but after about 2years he broke up with me for another girl. I got back with him after that because my feelings for him are so strong and I always forgive him for everything..... Well i screwed myself over because he left me again. Everytime he says how sorry he is and how no girl compares to me & that I'm his soulmate...We started talking again a few weeks ago but i'm starting to think he was only using me because I just found out he's dating someone else again! He has hurt me so bad and it sucks because i've let this happen... I dont know how i could love someone so much who has left me so many times...It also hurts because apparently he really likes this new girl. I really want to move on with my life and forget him its just hard knowing that we used to be so great...What would you do if you were me?

2007-12-01 18:21:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating