why do men rape womn? im just wondering, its so disguisting and gross. why dnt they just get themself a stripper or sumthing instead of putting a women in all tht pain, then be on the run frm the police. the reason im really pissed about it know is because my best friend takes in foster children and i really like one of them, shes a 4 year old gurl and she is ADORABLE. i just feel so bad for her she wants her mom but she has to stay with my friend, she really likes it but a child needs her mother. and i just found out today that her father raped her a while ago, when she was about 3 and a half. and she always has nightmares about it when she sleeps and i just feel SO bad for her. i mean why didnt the dad just go have sex with the mom if he wanted it so bad instead of hurting his little gurl??
2007-12-01 20:03:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some men rape, because they are mentally ill and they have to totally dominate the female. They, most of the time, were abused as children. So sad.
2007-12-01 20:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
They have a fixation on the power and violence of such an attack. That's what gets their rocks off.
It's usual for men to have a strong fantasy base for their sexuality.
Sometimes it goes wrong, and instead of changing to a healthier fantasy, they fixate on a dangerous one.
This can be rape, paedophila, extreme S & M, or any number of others. The causitive factors vary widely, but the result is the same... an obsession, and without it, he finds it difficult to get his rocks off.
I was abused in such a way by my step-great-grandfather from birth to the age of 3 years, at which time my Grandmother rescued me and took me away. Another female relative was abused by the same man when she was tiny too, I only fouind that out a few years ago.
During that time I was also physically abused by an aunt who was caring for me, she was finally caught hitting me over the head with a large piece of wood, I have a section of my hair that it white, because of the damage cause by her beatings.
The little girl will be damaged for life, like I have been.
I still have to sleep with the light on and I panic if somone is above me. I am nervous and shy and isolate myself from others. I am better than I was, a loving husband has helped that, but yes, she is damaged for life.. poor little thing :o(
2007-12-02 00:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
That doesnt meen he wanted to have sex so bad.. it just meeans that he has major iissues with the Michael Jackson oppsite thing... hes a ******* physco for doing that.. and i think people that do that to children and put them through that much pain should be shot on cite..she should be aloud to see her mother, but not the father (father needs to get his *** kicked and get shot in the ******* face) stripper isnt for sex stripper just takes her clothes off while guys watch.. hooker is for sex... men that rape women are just ****** up in the head its not that htey want to have sex its that they have issues...
i do agree that the girl shouldnt have to stay with your friend she should get to be wiht her mom. Her mom didnt rape her, the dad did
i hope this helped your question
2007-12-01 20:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jack D 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is a hate crime, they do it to belittle the girl. Basically they want to instill fear and take away the girls sense of dignity and self respect. There are many forms of rape, men and women rape each other in the workplace all the time. The problem is that people don't consider it to be a crime unless you can show physical wounds. Even though it is the mental wounds that last a lifetime. ;-)
2007-12-01 20:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Expert psychologists define rape as a form of assault where one individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person's will. Most experts believe the primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim rather than an attempt to achieve sexual fulfillment. They consider rape an act of violence rather than principally a sexual encounter. Here are some of the reasons according to the experts,
1.To get rid of frustration
2.control
3.hormones
2007-12-01 20:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by gina green 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
rape is a crime of power and controll, most men don't do it because it's sexy it's so they can feel like they have gained controll over a person and some people are sick enough to believe that is the only way they will be respected
2007-12-02 06:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Your Mom Says Hi 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Not all men rape.
2016-03-21 17:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause Rape is a Violent Crime, most men who commit it actually have relationships where they are having normal sex lives. But it a crime where they feel powerful and control their victim. That is why it is considered a Violent crime and not necessarily a sexual offfense. It has more to do with power and dominating another person.
2007-12-01 20:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ezz 6 · 17⤊ 0⤋
Rape is generally an act of violence due to being a mentally disturbed person.
As far as the rest, like drugging em and stuff, they're just sleezy bastards is all.
2007-12-01 20:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by illunatic 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
well i'm on your side...nothing is worth putting a girl through all of that.my grandparents have to deal with that kind of stuff to cause they own a group home it's discusting the kind of thing i've been told about them kids.
2007-12-01 20:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋