well...i have problem regarding relationship between me and parents. i always recieve advices and suggestions from parents all the time but sometimes i feel they aren't necessary. i wanna live my life my way and not by compromising. i want to enjoy life. i sometimes get frustrated when my parents interfere in my courses of action.
plz....help...
2007-12-01 18:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sometimes parents really know what's best for their child.sometimes we children get irritated because sometimes it's always the same and the same thing they're telling us,right?sometimes it's just easy to let it enter in one ear and let it come out in another.but if you don't have anything good to say,just be silent and pretend that you're listening.but listen also to what they're saying.maybe they're right.but if not,just keep your mouth shut and thank them instead for the word of advice. =)
2007-12-01 20:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by αςhα ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are, but I hope you appreciate the fact that they obviously care. There are so many people in the world that would almost die to have a parent that is at least somewhat interested in whats going on in their life.
This used to aggravate me also, when my Mother would give me advice that often made me wonder if she thought I had any sense at all. Maybe it will help if you try to see it is as being "coached" along. You may not see it now, but you'll miss all of this in an odd kind of way when you no longer have your parents. I know from experience. Good luck.
2007-12-02 03:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by cindy4501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just trying to help you out. Everyone gets frustrated with their parents from time to time and every parent gets frustrated with their kids from time to time. You might try heeding their words of wisdom, at least take them under serious consideration, for they have the experience you lack. You could learn something. Compromise is a good thing. Show your parents that you are responsible and willing to take what they say into consideration and implement some of their suggestions to see how it works out for you. I am a parent of two grown daughters with kids and careers of their own and they still get advice from me if I think I have something significant to offer. It never ends. We care, that's all.
2007-12-02 04:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are mature enough to just move out and move on with your life. If you are not 18 then you just have to deal with it until you are old enough to make your own decisions. Ask yourself....could you really make it on your own with no help from your parents????? If your answer is no then you should probably just settle down and accept the fact that you have to listen to them and obey their rules. If your answer is yes...move out! Good Luck!
2007-12-02 02:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Juniata P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard for parents to not give suggestions to their grown kids. Just thank them for their ideas; tell them you love and appreciate them. And then, if you don't live with them and they don't pay your way in life, go home and thank God you have parents. Mine are gone and I miss them so much!
2007-12-02 03:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never stop getting them but the question is - are you going to follow their advices all the time? You can just listen to what they have to say to be polite about it but you don't have to follow it or swallow it hook, line and sinker. If you have made up your mind, just tell them you've made up your mind and be strong about it.
2007-12-02 02:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋