Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

how big is a 40 year old guys "down there" if ya know what i mean, cause i have a crush on a 40 year old guy and i'm 24

2007-12-01 15:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example,
You get a ticket, you don't want your spouse to know so that you don't worry them. So you pay it in secret and never tell them. Another example is you get a low score on your test, you don't tell your parents about it fearing the consequences but you solve it on your own. So is hiding these things from these people the same as lying?

2007-12-01 15:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Today i went to my florist to make a payment on my wedding flowers. I asked for a copy of my owner and all the recipts so I could have a copy for my personl reconds, and to show my mom who is helping to pay for the wedding. She said I could not recieve these things until my order is paid in full, which won't be for awhile, and then she got an attitude with me, by saying something like" If you would pay this off sooner you can get it then". I am very upset because I've been really nice to this lady. The only reason we went with this flower shop is because my finace kept her son from being beat up in high school, and we thought she would give us a good deal. My mother and I are very upset, and we are seriously considering switching to a different florist, and launching a complaint with the BBB. I was wondering if anyone had a simlar experiance like this when planning their wedding.

2007-12-01 15:02:28 · 15 answers · asked by Cute Mom of 2 6 in Weddings

I view myself as a rock most of the time so no one enjoys hanging out with me. ..please help

2007-12-01 15:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 15:01:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are really happy in our marriage. I think much of it has to do with the amount of time we spend together talking (lots) and (ahem...) the fact that we're in the sack quite a bit. How about you? What makes it work for you?

2007-12-01 14:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 14:55:00 · 20 answers · asked by kerim5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know she doesnt really hate me but she just is scared. once again im probably the biggest geek at my middle school but its just cause im a little different and i know she can see thast but is just to afraid because im a geek and it could ruin her rep. she could like/love me but i just need to get her to see that any advice?

also im in middle school no doggy style crap for all you pervs out there, no 69 either.

2007-12-01 14:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He drank alot when we first met and smoked weed but tried to stop for me and cut down alot. He proposed and then things went down hill. He began helping a male friend remodel his kitchen and for months and I hardly saw him. This is what makes me think he is gay. But I also found that he was smoking weed and drinking alot when with this friend. Then he bought an invest prop next door and rented it out to a family he knows. They are heavy drinkers and also smoke weed. He began going there every waking free minute possible and practically lives there! Even the other neighbors noticed he is never home! He doesn't do anything w/ me n doesn't ask what I want to do - he is always there. He also doesn't care about HIS home. I also found he's texting that 'male friend' again. NO-no wed plans! I want to know is it that he is addicted to drink n weed or that he never wanted to get married in the first place or could he really be gay since he text messages that guy and never texts me? Suggestions!

2007-12-01 14:53:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 14:52:49 · 3 answers · asked by Heather B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My roommate and I both have boyfriends but we have the hots for each other and constantly find ourselves in near sexual situations. The tension is killing us, so we discussed how we feel and she suggested friends with benefits. We want to keep this as our secret. But we're not sure exactly how to make it work. We both agree that once we engage in sex we might want a lot more of it. We also don't know how exactly to initiate sex when we want it. Since we live together booty calls don't work. Is it just supposed to happen when we're horny for each other? What if it's all the time? Also she suggested that she wants to be there for me casual affection and emotional support as well but we don't know how that makes friends with benefits any different from regular relationship. I'd appreciate a response.

2007-12-01 14:51:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my family is fighting with my relatives on my moms side again(uncle,aunt and grandpa). This happened when I was about 5 last time and the results were horrible. My dog was shot and my grandma died from stress. This time they moved near our house without knowing. When they realized this they started to start annoying us by turning things on loudly at night,ruin my moms garden and terrifying my dog. My parents are beginning to start retaliating. Even my 4 brother and sisters are starting to fight with my cousins. I told them to ignore them but they said I was only 12. My oldest sibling is only 16 anyways. How can I stop this before everything goes wrong? Also do you think everybody should be able to help decide what to do in a family?

2007-12-01 14:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy....He likes me....and he asked me out but my best friend likes him too...but he almost hates her...I feel bad for liking him but he is really cool. I said that I would go out but...
do you understand my situation??? ERGH! *sigh* What do I do? I would really like to go with him; HELP!!!

2007-12-01 14:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by *Kathy* 2 in Singles & Dating

well.. ok so my mom doesnt let me swear and she thinking its bad and all that crap , and the other day she over herd me swear
should i get spanked for this?

2007-12-01 14:50:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

4 real if u gone buy me diamonds...im gonna hope u got a good deal.......more karots but is it different with women...do they get more out of the fact that you spent so much on a diamond?? money that u worked so hard for? wat ya'll think men and women?

2007-12-01 14:48:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which do men prefer more??

the skinny-modelesque types or the heavier-healthier women?

2007-12-01 14:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because all guys i know show that they like girls a bit...
and they all go out with them.

im from an asian muslim family, even though i know most other asian muslim guys are not like my brother.
my brother is 25 and he has never been out with or kissed a girl, i havent been out with guys either but i have kissed a few, liked a lot and tried wondering away with a few even at a young age.

also my bro is very unusual and weird in some ways.
he is very nice, sometimes great (especially compared to my dad) but sometimes he is a weird idiot.

im just wondering about what it can be???
it has crossed my mind even when we were younger in our teens, i ve 'never ever' said anything of it because it would make me feel bad.

2007-12-01 14:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am from texas but i am living in kansas. i have been here for six months and i feel really lonely. my friend came to live with me recently but i still feel like if shes not here. what can i do to cheer myself up?

2007-12-01 14:41:38 · 20 answers · asked by denise 2 in Friends

Im 19 hes 21 and 3 times money came up unaccounted for,
he hardly calls me for his lunch break, says " i take naps for my lunch break" but twice i suprised him for lunch and he was in a female co workers car she like 40 (but still a cat is a cat probably has more tricks)
last yr got an std and said " the doctor mis diagnose u cause i dont have it" and i am a faithful wife
he lied about going to a strip club until i caught him in a lie
this yr he tried a new trick (intimacy)

I just need to know cause i still bring up "old" things and sometimes my gut says he is sometimes my gut says no
i want to find out how to bust him
oh yeah he has this new friend who cheats on his wife and refuses to stop hangin around him even though i insisted

2007-12-01 14:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by proudmama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife has this idea that not talking to me is suposed to make me mad..when i ignore her being mad..she gets madder..when i ask whats wrong she either doesnt wanna talk or makes it worse and says something dumb about something that i did that she didnt like but i didnt intentionally do..and even when im not wrong and she thinks i should appologize and i do..she calls the apology b.s and its a basic smack in the face..so when i dont apologize she wonders why..at this very second shes down stairs braiding hair and im ignoring her cause she is acting weird..every few minutes shes nice then shes mean..she freakn nuts...earlier she was all nice i came back from the store an she was given me dirty looks..i wanna communicate and talk..she thinks slamming doors and ignoring me is the way to get my attention but we have been married 5 yrs..that crap doesnt phase me anymore..what the hecks her prob??

2007-12-01 14:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by b.moretee24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well the good parts about him is that he's funny, sweet(when he wants to be),cute,he will listen if u want to talk. But then around his friends he can be arrogent, an idoit, rude, and just plain STUPID! and i've tried taking to him but one of his friends is always there and he doesn't act like himself so i can't ask him to much.

When im around him my stomach tightens and i feel like im going to be sick. But i don't know if i shouldn't like him or if i should go with my feelings and like him.

2007-12-01 14:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 14:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married for 20yrs , separated off and on because I still loved him and hoped we were apart long enough to recapture what we lost but now divorced I cannot seem to stop thinking about what he is doing or sending him a text hello. Friendly divorce but I want a sure way to be friendly still but disappear.. I feel I am his and my comfort zone buffer. HELP!!!! I need ideas like yesterday

2007-12-01 14:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am trying to find a website that i can investigate someone, to find out if they are married.

2007-12-01 14:32:00 · 12 answers · asked by redfyr79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 14:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I stop flirting with women when I'm at a stop light?

2007-12-01 14:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a female?

2007-12-01 14:31:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to to this favor for my wedding it will be outside. http://weddingshop.theknot.com/weddingwarehouse/ProductPage.aspx?scId=Unique%20Favors(KnotShop)&pId=P567(KnotShop)&cId=&cTypF=
Cute but a little to much for the budget. But I wanted to know if there are any websites that sell the wrappers for this favor. Or if there is a computer program that will make. I am doing most of the thinkgs for this wedding DYI so crafty is not a problem.

2007-12-01 14:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by movievixin 4 in Weddings

i waz walking with my friend and i went home and my mom told me to take a check to our landlord which lives right in front of me so i took it over and she wasn't there so i just decided to put the check in my pocket and i will take it to her later. when i got hom ei could not find the check!!!! it was for $850 dollars and i dont know what to do, should i tell my mom so she should cancel it or should i just keep it to myself. advice plz!!!! dont be mean

2007-12-01 14:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by lucky_charms 1 in Friends

Our living room has become the Manitorium. That's a place where my husband can close off the doors and keep us women (me the wife and two daughters) out so he can have some peace and quiet.

2007-12-01 14:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by cashew 3 in Marriage & Divorce