Im 19 hes 21 and 3 times money came up unaccounted for,
he hardly calls me for his lunch break, says " i take naps for my lunch break" but twice i suprised him for lunch and he was in a female co workers car she like 40 (but still a cat is a cat probably has more tricks)
last yr got an std and said " the doctor mis diagnose u cause i dont have it" and i am a faithful wife
he lied about going to a strip club until i caught him in a lie
this yr he tried a new trick (intimacy)
I just need to know cause i still bring up "old" things and sometimes my gut says he is sometimes my gut says no
i want to find out how to bust him
oh yeah he has this new friend who cheats on his wife and refuses to stop hangin around him even though i insisted
2007-12-01 14:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by proudmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already busted him when you saw him in that woman's car. I guess you think just because she is a 40 year old woman he wouldn't have sex with her. A 40 year old woman is very sexual and your husband would jump on that in a second. You knew he was out sleeping around why else would you have yourself tested for std. You know your not cheating on him so who give it to you? What more proof do you need to see do you need to see him having sex with a woman to believe it,stop being so naive and go with your gut feeling it's never wrong. I don't think a 21 year old man knows how to be faithful.
2007-12-01 20:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to cheating than sleeping with another woman. Jesus said you commit adultery just by having lust in your heart for someone else (includes strip clubs). He obviously doesn't respect you enough to avoid the attention of other women (which would bring you more security, which is his job) As for his friend, "birds of a feather . . ." He sounds young and immature.
Many young couples don't realize that being married also means you're not single and that includes a whole change in perspective. You'll need to go to an impartial third party (no family, but a Christian counselor or pastor) so he won't think that you are just being silly.
2007-12-01 14:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by haigazimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a fashionable woman, it's time to entice a line interior the sand and tell that dishrag of a husband that he has a call: He can the two be her husband or his mom's. If he does not prefer to fulfill her objectives besides as those of his mothers and fathers, she would manage to locate somebody else who will. it fairly is not a right this moment project. This one impacts the subsequent 50 years of her existence. you are able to set up a marriage, yet you won't manage to set up a marriage. a marriage is between 2 human beings and if those mothers and fathers are what i think of they're, it is, "If we've one existence to stay, enable or no longer it fairly is yours." they might desire to be put in their places through fact the couple will the two make it or no longer and the mothers and fathers will die way till now the greater youthful couple. they're the worst form of interfering mothers and fathers. i do no longer care what their traditions says, it's time to stand up and instruct them a calendar of the twenty first Century.
2016-09-30 10:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, he is cheating. Go with your gut. Go get his cell phone and check his voicemail. then look at the numbers. All else fails, have him followed by someone you know that he does not.
I would ignore him daily when he is at home. Cheaters hate being ignored and you are doing your own thing without any regard for them. He might turn it around, but I doubt it. He is too young to appreciate what he has.
best wishes.
2007-12-01 21:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Etain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a natural instinct when it comes to their man cheating, It's that gut feeling you get that something is not right...take heed to your feelings. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it's a duck.
2007-12-01 14:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by fglns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. Or at least getting ready to. Your 19 dump him and get on with your life.
2007-12-01 16:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Troy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
positively one hundred percent no question or doubt in my head he is cheating.......u busted him already with the std and if he hangs with cheater friends then thats the final piece..he hangs with him cause its the one friend he can hang with that he knows wont tell on him
2007-12-01 14:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by b.moretee24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend that you know and that he doesn't and set him up. Have the friend start talking to him and flirting and see if he falls for the bait. Busted!!!
2007-12-01 14:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bubba13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheating lieing cad. Dump him before he gives you another STD.
2007-12-01 14:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by holly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheating. It seems like you have already caught!
2007-12-01 14:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Wisdom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋