i am from texas but i am living in kansas. i have been here for six months and i feel really lonely. my friend came to live with me recently but i still feel like if shes not here. what can i do to cheer myself up?
2007-12-01 14:41:38 · 20 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take a class at the local college, or find a church you like. You should be able to make decent friends at one of those places. Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-12-01 14:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully, ALL of us will get lonely at some point in our lives or feeling that something is missing out. This is probably you have to do ALOT of soul searching. Well, try being friendly to the people around you. You know the old saying, if you want to treated with respect and kindness, gotta do the same in return.
Try being grateful at the blessings you have... If you were in a 3rd world country, you'll probably be salvaging what you can manage or fighting to stay alive.
2007-12-01 15:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I travel all the time. never been in one place for six months , I know what I do to fight the boredom and lonlyness. I learn as much about the area as I can , check out the local museams , music venues ect...seems like I meet some cool people on the way most times...Peace
2007-12-01 14:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by sltydgx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a hobby. I know that sounds too simple but it works. For instance..... I took up tennis lessons and scuba diving. I began to meet friends with mutual interests. It's a great way to make friends that enjoy some of the things that you do.
2007-12-01 14:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Geno 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to get out there and meet new people. You have to ask yourself, what am I doing in my free time. How can I meet new people/ do new activities?
Sitting at home is not the right answer!
2007-12-01 14:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by VY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find some work to do to keep you occupied and make new friends at your new workplace, or you can try to answer some of the questions in this program of Yahoo, or read up Best Answers to better cope with nothing to do.
2007-12-01 14:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just find something to do so you won't be thinking to much. Just clean or hang out with your friends or that friend thats living with you. Tell her you want to hang out with her or tell somone your problems and let it all out so you can have room for the good things.
2007-12-01 14:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kaity A 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go out on some social events to meet people.
Check out www.meetup.com
Search for your area.
Have fun
2007-12-01 14:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join clubs.....get a job.....talk on the internet and make friends
2007-12-01 14:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make some friends.
2007-12-01 14:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋